I guess I’m the only one, but if I’m really within 2 or three thrusts of finishing I’m not sure I’d notice. At that point in the proceedings, my attention has a pretty narrow focus and the awareness of my surroundings is somewhat compromised.
Her: “If I’m asleep when you’re done, would you pull my nightie back down?”
Him: “Sure.”
It’s amusing to me that in the poll, the women have been roughly 50/50 all along as to whether it would be okay for the guy to continue, while it’s been the men who’ve been going ballistic about how skeevy, rapey, etc., the idea is.
“Honey, if you pass out mid coitus but I only have a few pumps left and I’m certain your passing out wasn’t life threatening because reasons, could I continue?”
“What an interesting hypothetical. I can already tell this is a conversation worth having.”
“Well, I figured it’s best to ask ahead of time rather than risk the 50% chance of raping you.”
Sorry to revive a bit of an old thread but I voted other, being a lesbian woman about to get married to another woman.
From a ‘woman on woman’ perspective…fuck! Of course I’d stop! And if I passed out I’d expect her to stop too! If it was a known medical condition (such as syncope brought on by orgasm) then we’d time/arrange our activity in advance to take that into consideration, but I sure as hell wouldn’t be continuing on with an unconscious partner, even for just a few seconds, just so I could ‘get mine’.
When I was very young I knew a woman who would sometimes respond to my efforts with more or less continuous orgasms. Apparently it was difficult to breath when that was going on, which tended to heighten the effect…until she would pass out.
So the procedure was to stop, keep my weight off of her, make sure she was breathing (not sure what I would have done if the answer was not) and wait for her to recover consciousness. Then we would have a little laugh and finish up at a less vigorous pace.
This happened only 3-4 times over the course of 3 years or so. We didn’t think it was necessarily a good idea, but she was pretty strong about encouraging it when the planets aligned to make it possible. And yeah, my ego approved.
Not asleep exactly. Being absorbed with “screaming” (and various other vocalizations) one can apparently neglect to breath sufficiently to remain conscious.
It’s only 50/50 if you don’t know her preferences which is highly unlikely of you have been intimate with this woman for 100s of times. People communicate and he’d probably know her preference.
1-3 “pumps” and knowing for a fact she’s fine and doesn’t care. Why not?
It’s not a crime. If it were my wife would be a rapist as she has performed oral to wake me up in the past. Now I won’t wake her up that way because she awakens in a different state of mind than I do.