Sounds like he picked up on the “she’s one of those who digs through my stuff for no good reason (because lets be real, finding out what he is up to after he dumps you is pointless isn’t it?)” vibe and for good reason and decided to move on.
Did he really owe you an honest explaination? Hell maybe he gave you one. He said he would not have ht etime for you. You may be really high maintenance, or come off as such and therefore he wouldn’t have time for you. He may be looking for a screw, not a relationship, hence the personal ads and dating service.
Christ, digging though his account. This is one mitigating factor in why i no longer “date”. Not only did you snoop into his private business, but you read e-mails from friends. You snooped into their business as well. Maybe you aren’t one of my psycho-stalker ex girlfriend’s, but your OP could have been made by one of them.
For zen101, and anyone else who is quick to call me a psycho-bitch or the equivalent -
You really don’t know me, yet you are awfully quick to condemn me. You are also mighty quick to jump to conclusions about my character, not based on the ~750 or so posts I’ve made over the last 18+ months, but in the one post where I admitted I had done something I wasn’t proud of, at a point when I was feeling really low. How tolerant and understanding of you all. I suppose if I tried to give any additional details at this point (not that you are really entitled to any), I would be accused of making things up to make myself look better. Really, I’ve seen the tactic before.
I wasn’t sure I should post anything here at all, but given the immensely personal details other folks have dumped on the boards I figured this was pretty tame. Guess I was wrong.
For the folks who weighed in with more kindly (or at least less rudely-phrased) comments, thank you.
I’m going to ask the mods to close this, because I don’t think it serves any purpose to keep it open. Life is lousy enough right now as it is.