You just reminded me. When my son was still an infant he attached himself to one of my silk nighties. I breastfed him and I wore that nightie a lot while doing so. Anyway, I guess it came to symbolize love, comfort, safety, a full belly. and whatnot for him. As he got to toddling, he’d take my nightie and drag it around with him. I finally just let him have it. When he was around 18 months old, his Dad bought him a rabbitskin “to wrap our baby bunting in” and he LOVED it! He carried that thing EVERYWHERE! What was really funny though, was the fact that he used to stuff it in the front of his diaper!
I’m 42, female and didn’t start using my hands to masturbate until I was 29. But Mom talks about telling my pediatrician, when I was months old “uhm… well… she sometimes, uhm… she gets into these weird positions and uhm…” and the doctor laughed and explained that I was masturbating and babies do it from birth. His WAG (no ultrasounds back then) was that they actually start pre-birth. I know that for local ObGyns it’s customary, when they’re trying to determine a fetus’ gender for the first time and a hand keeps obstructing the view, to put it down as “undetermined, tentatively boy”.
The position is the same one I still use when I’m masturbating hand-less and there isn’t people around, and no I am NOT going to describe it or post pics.
Too late. I found a picture.
So what is this handless masturbation technique? Will any female dopers who can do it step up and correct this cocktease-y behavior? I have to know! After all, I’m female. I should be able to do this.
As the mother of three, I would reiterate what was said upthread about the fact that he won’t stay out of your room without “a lock”. 5 is headed to school age, and he needs to learn that even if something is tempting, taking others’ property without permission, or against rules will get him into trouble. That is the only problem I would have with his behavior. If I told my kid to stay out of my room and my things, he needs to respect my authority enough to obey.
Hi Hedda Rosa! You are not alone, I posted a thread about my 6 yr. old son two years ago:
six year old son snitching my clothes…advice?
I got mostly the same kind of responses as you did.
I kept finding my clothes, mostly underwear, for awhile. Each time I told him not to take my clothes and talked about not taking things that aren’t yours, but I never punished him, because I didn’t want to him to associate punishment/shame/guilt with what were sexy feelings for him.
I don’t think I’ve found anything his hiding places for a year or more and nothing’s gone missing, so I think the behavior has stopped.
My gut intuition is it IS sexual and it’s not about liking silky textures (since all my underwear are plain cotton.)
I really get where you’re coming from with not wanting him to “imprint” on this. That was pretty much my feeling…lets not start with something that’s just going to make your life more difficult, although I also think the poster who said if he’s gay or not it’s already been decided, if this is his kink or not it’s already been decided.
Like I said in that thread, I, as his mother, just wanted to be left out of it!
Sitting on your foot? I dunno … was hoping someone would pipe up, too.
Why not buy him some appropriate silky outfits? A batman cape? A spiderman suit? I’m sure there’s plenty out there. . .
I totally get your creeped out feelings, though. Hang in there, you’re doing great!
Mine started waaaaay before she was five. In the shopping trolley, in her buggy, anywhere she could :o
I let her be, only asking her to stop if she was really going for it in public (yes, in the shopping trolley), now she’s almost five she’s grown out of doing it so ceaselessly and pretty much only does it in bed before sleep.
Kids just do stuff and get bored with it is the lesson I guess.
My eldest daughter was around 18 months old when she started. We just always told her to go to her room to do it. That everyone does it because it feels good, but it’s “private” behavior not “public” behavior.
My daughter was masturbating in the womb. Boom! In your face!
Awesome!! 
I have an ultrasound pic of my son sucking his middle two fingers… 
Just as an fyi, I was mocking you guys.
Well, I bet all three of my sons are masturbating right now!!
Mom?
Fapping to the Dope could lead to some strange associations…
Oh…okay.
Sit in a chair that can rock. Cross one leg over the other very tightly, more so than you would do to sit comfortably. Rock the chair while your legs are tightly squeezed.
I don’t buy the “so and so did it and no one ever knew” because it seems like it would be pretty obvious considering it’s not exactly a natural sitting posture.
I started wearing my mother’s panties and bras when I was 5 years old, and yes I did get aroused, very aroused, it was indeed sexual for me. Soon I was wearing everything I could get my hands on but lingerie has always been my favorite, especially bras and panties. Today I have a huge wardrobe that includes bras, panties, slips. half slips, stockings, garter belts, girdles, high-heels, dresses, skirts, blouses, shorts, nightgowns, makeup, jewelry, wigs, purses, breast forms and nipples and just about anything that a woman might have and nothing is more exciting than dressing as a woman. I also enjoy being with men in a sexual relationship, I love being the woman and being submissive, I’ve always wanted to be a woman! My mother knew that I wore her things and she knew how excited I got wearing them, and yes I always masturbated when wearing them. I wore her things almost everyday growing up and she was not only aware of it but she saw me often wearing her things and looking at women’s lingerie in the catalog and masturbating. Everything I buy is made for women and fits me fine since I am petite and I know my sizes. I always buy name brands and prefer styles like my mother wore, brief panties and full-coverage bras, even the colors and brands are the same. My favorite colors are white and pink and my favorite panties are Vanity Fair and my favorite bras are Bali, although I have many other brands. I love being a cross-dresser and a sissy queer!
This thread is so old, for all we know, you were the kid in the OP!
Well, isn’t that special?