An ENTIRE room of Tin Knickers?
The mind reels.
Ok, I just got off the phone with #2 son’s teacher. I have not met her yet, but (as I always do) I called her to say hello and introduce myself a few weeks ago-got a voice mail. So, now she calls. #2 son forgot to bring his spelling test home to be signed (all tests must be signed this year for some reason–he did fine on it). Well, I say, this a new thing and he remembered this morning, so I’ll remind him. She replies with, “well, we’re trying to get them to not forget.” No shit, Sherlock.
And then she says, “he didn’t turn in his assignment on topic sentences.”
“Um, ok.”
I guess she wanted more from me–but what can I do? He’s at school. She went on to 'splain how he was supposed to do this but he didn’t (we’d established that) and now he had to use his “pass” (they get one each marking period), so now he has no more passes, and all I could think was, “so?”.
It sounded a lot like she doesn’t want the kids to use this pass at all, which why would you give them a pass if you don’t want them to use them?
So, I told her that I ask him every day what homework he has. Last night he had imperatives in the workbook and no math. She agreed, but said that this was separate (not in the workbook). Um, again, ok. I’ll speak to him.
Something in her tone just irked me, though. Like why can’t he use his pass? She didn’t say he couldn’t, but sounded put out that he had. So what if he doesn’t have another one: it has to be used sometime, and maybe he won’t need it again. This is a kid who gets anxious if you yell at the kid sitting next to him or send someone down to the principal’s office–he’ll never be a lick of trouble in school. He’s too shy and too worried about getting into trouble. I wish he were a bit more relaxed about the whole thing, but none of my kids were (until they learn to trust the teacher and 3 weeks in is too soon for my kids).
I will meet her tomorrow night and be able to judge better. I’m in a bit of a sour mood, anyway, so that might be part of it. I think she thinks I go through his backpack and sit and help him with his homework. While he knows I’m available and he does ask me questions, school is his job. I do not enable; I do not hover.
Doctor appt soon.