Okay, women, here’s something I’ve always wondered about.
Most women enjoy cunnilingus. Many, in fact, like it a whole lot. This I understand. This I appreciate, because I enjoy giving as much or more than receiving.
But some women can take it or leave it…and a few just don’t like it. Personally, I haven’t had a problem with this…those who like it have all told me they thoroughly enjoy me. I know that each woman prefers a slightly different technique and I’m readily adaptable. I’ve even converted a couple of gals who used to think they didn’t like it. (one of them hardly ever let me up for air thereafter!)
<<My question to those who don’t enjoy it:
What’s not to like?>>
Hmm. Let me count the ways…and these are MY ways, not anybody else’s. YGMV.
You can’t talk to me.
I can’t see you. At all. C’mon, it’s dimly lit sometimes, and I’m legally blind with my glasses off. I can barely tell that there’s someone down there, much less see who.
If I wanted lonely sex with a mysterious partner, thanks, I can masturbate.
Oddly enough, I like blowjobs just fine, mostly because I can get the guy to sit up and at least put his hands on my shoulders or run them through my hair, and I can see and hear a lot better. Any length between “My, what a surprise” and “My jaw is falling off” is fine by me, too.
justinh~~ I kind of PREFER a hand AND a tongue down there. haha
Also, concerning BJ’s: My favorite way to give one is a… wake up call. I like to surprise my husband with one in the middle of the night… haha He never seems to mind. I will say that normally my BJ’s don’t ever last more than 5 minutes. That’s because he’s pulling me up so that we can have SEX. haha It’s a nice reward for just 4 or 5 minutes of work.
EEK! It never occurred to me until now that maybe he’s having me stop the BJ because I’m not doing it very well!! I guess that’s a question I’ll as HIM tonight. haha Instead of burdening anyone on here with it.
I didn’t feel like quoting the whole thing, because I’d get hard re-reading it. So I chose to use this little bit. Is it any wonder I love ya, bobkitty?
Well, er, I’m extremely inexperienced, having only one partner and not too much of a chance to do anything with him, but I will say that I enjoy giving. Anything I can do to please him, well, hell yeah. Of course I have to take breaks to crack my jaw every five minutes… I just can’t prop it open that wide!
Nah. This is only one of many reasons, I’m sure. Also known as the “You mean there’s something ELSE you’re supposed to do with it?” attitude. Well, other than rub it into your skin, that is.
Sigh…I can almost remember what it was like to have a guy whose schlong fit in my mouth. Giving my boy a BJ is like trying to give head to a Coke can. He LOVES it, though, so I kind of do most of the work manually & just do the last minute or so with the mouth.
I like giving blowjobs, but only to people I respect and also turn me on. A half hour is normally where I’ll quit and start using my hand unless it leads to sex. As far as cunilingus goes, I like it, but it’s very hard to get me off from the attempts I’ve received. I prefer when the guy can find my G spot in addition to orally pleasuring me, but it rarely happens. I guess I’ve been hooking up with sexual retards.
Maybe not retards…but it does take practice, communication, and a genuine love of the act itself.
Sex is like Life: the pleasure is a journey, not a destination.
