Last night i was stood up by a girl who i work with at the hospital. The plan as of Wednesday was to go and see New Moon after we had dinner. I called her Friday night after i looked up showtimes but she didnt’ pick up so i left a voicemail asking to call me back. No call back all night. Saturday i called her again at noon, still didn’t pick up, then i sent a text saying to get in touch with me. I waited until 7 and sent one last text “I guess no movie huh?”
I want to just give her an earful about being mean, inconsiderate, and flat out rude. Being that we both work in the same building we are bound to bump into each other at some point in the hallway…
Should i just avoid a confrontation, give her flack about being a bitch, call her desk phone and say “I’d like to talk to you in the cafeteria.” or, just, i dunno, punch her in the face and get escorted up to H.R.? That last part was tongue-in-cheek, i have no intention to ruin my job. Maybe hear her side of the story, regardless of whatever excuse she comes up with and just go from there?
What have you done with men or women who have stood you up of blown you off?