You both sat through an entire dinner without saying anything to each other?
Clearly the relationship is over, and you should dump him so he can pursue a relationship with the soccer player.
Looking like a football player? Like, idk, perhaps David Beckham? That’s funny! Or rather like Lionel Messi? That is even funnier! Or Cristiano Ronaldo? There I would be worried.
We talked most of the time. There was a time at the end where it was quiet for a bit.
Oh, hey. Why don’t you ask him?
I did, and he said she just resembles a soccer player. I’m just bothered by the fact he seemed to be quick glancing a lot and now at the end it’s this comment he made.
Ok. I’ll answer your question. You ARE overreacting.
Adding, you are jealous, have low self esteem, are unsure of the relationship. Quit worrying what he’s glancing at and fix yourself.
Nobody can tell you that your feelings are not valid. Your true feelings are as authentic and valid as anyone else’s.
Your thoughts, however, are batshit.
Why would you ask him “are you good” when you suspected him of oogling the waitress rather than simply asking him a question that sparks an actual conversation? “Are you good” seems confrontational and judgemental. Were you intentionally trying to be abrasive and argumentative? Next time you want to capture his attention away from the waitress, try “So how was your day” or something along those lines.
This wasn’t happening at the beginning; it was happening through the whole dinner.
The quick glancing or whatever.
Has anything like this happened before? Is there a pattern of this behavior?
Bingo.
On the 1% chance that this discussion ever actually happened, OP you are acting completely irrational.
Similarity; on a social media site - a photo of a lewd gamer girl. He didn’t comment - he just saved the post.
You asked the wrong question.
You probably said “Why were looking at that waitress all through our dinner?”
You should have asked “Why does it bother me for you to look at another person, for whatever reason?”
And I’m done here. This is not a poster who’s gonna listen to reason. They want back-up and someone to tell them they’re right and boyfriend is wrong.
Yeah pretty much. She doesn’t want an answer, she just wants an audience. I’m out.
He might have had the belief you’re a person who cares about his thoughts and with whom he can share random things with. Depending on how much of this reaction he has seen, he may very well reevaluate that belief in the future, as you clearly appear to not be a person with whom he can share thoughts.
Although it seems more likely that he noticed you appear to be less than stable about this sort of thing, and tried to deflect your unrealistically jealous behavior (to no success).
If you would reason with both sides and also see why it’s wrong (men checking out women while in a relationship) then go somewhere else! We don’t need you.
If you want to be nasty online instead of trying to help, pick someone else 
I ask things in my own way, and if you don’t like it, go away.
Nowhere in your OP did you even say he was “checking her out.”
Newsflash, human beings look at the faces of other human beings. It’s got nothing to do with gender or attractiveness.
It’s possible that your boyfriend is attracted to the soccer player and he’s trying to express this in a heterosexual context.