Hmm, 22, gay male. Engage in both ends of it fairly regularly
…and THAT’S why I don’t go on cruises!
23, female, woman who won’t, and couldn’t even if she wanted to.
45, male. Never done it, don’t want to do it, let others have it if they want. Ugh.
23/M
Never done, thought kinda intrigues me…I’d try it if she was ok with it, otherwise I’m fine without it.
30, female. I’ve let guys do it just cuz they wanted to try it. I don’t think any of them ever asked to do it again - vaginal sex was plenty good enough. I can’t get off from it. To me it just feels like I’m having a poo and er…that’s not sexy!
27, male. Never done it, though I’d like to try both giving and receiving. I meant to with my last partner, who even bought a strap-on, but it didn’t work out.
I’m multi-orgasmic and love all kinds of hetero sex, but no way, no how will I ever even try anal sex. Maybe that paints me as close-minded, I don’t care. Anal sex is one of my top 3 things I will never, ever willingly do. Just the thought of it hurts. Ow. Ow. Ow!
Don’t you think you’re being a little bit closed-minded here, Alice?
Well, not closed-MINDED, as much as closed at the other end, but my gentle, probing question relates to all the prior testimony from female hetero ass-love enthusiasts, who certainly lack an ulterior motive in persuading you to check it out. In fact, they could be arguing against their own interests, since the more women who say “No, thank you, I do not want your thing up my poopchute,” makes them more attractive in comparison. They’re saying “Try it, you might like it” and you’re having a more negative response than Amy Winehouse’s to attend a rehab session. “They tried to get me to go anal but I said Ow. Ow. Ow.”
And now that I’m done twitting Alice, I will respond: Male, het, 56. Done anal on several occasions, with several woman (all of whom enjoyed it, as did I.) But the vast majority have turned thumbs-down to offers to stick my thumb (and other parts) up. It’s no deal-breaker–and I have declined on occasion, just because other stuff seemed fun and we ran out of time to try everything. All in all, I would say Alice’s response is more typical than this thread would lead you to conclude.
39 straight, married.
My wife likes it on occaison, and I have obliged, even though I generally don’t like it much. It just doesn’t feel all that great to me.
One time we were messing around with one of her toys while we were having sex and she asked me to put it in there. Now that’s a weird feeling, feeling another proboscis with your own seperated by a wall of tissue!
It’s not really my cup of tea, but if she’s into it, I’ll oblige. However, if she prefers it to vaginal, then we have a problem. (I’ve come across a few.) 29/M.
Male, 31. In my experience, the ladies who tend to like it usually go for a bit of the rough stuff, anyway. Good rule of thumb: if she says “bite my nipples,” there’s a good chance she likes it in the butt, too.
I like providing, though not as much as vaginal. Mostly because of the amount of work involved. Vaginally, we can screw with wild abandon. Anally, I have to make sure that I’m very, very careful and very, very aware of the situation.
Butt sex is a waste of time for men, unless they are gay I suppose and have few options.
Just not as much stimulation because it’s friction on one small band rather than the whole organ at once. And for the woman the “risk” of subsequent vaginal infections is more like a guarantee.
53, straight, divorced.
I love giving, tolerate getting. I’ve noticed that the women who really want it tend to have spectacular rumps - anyone else notice that?
Never have, never will. Not willingly, anyway.
38, female, separated.
Have done it a couple times, and it hurt like hell. Of course, this was before I found out about lube. By then there was no one to try it with.
See, this is why I don’t like to give my real name.
39 straight male. Done it with I believe three women, always on their initiative. I don’t mind, but nothing beats the, erm, jade port…?
30, Straight male
Never given, but wanted to do it for some time and have yet to find someone willing (or yet to find the right way to ask…)
Mainly because I really like girl’s asses: it’s simply the idea of having sex with that part of the body really appeals, not expectations of how it will feel (though obviously I wouldn’t want it to be painful for either of us).
I suppose, if you go straight from A to V, but that’s obviously a risky practice.
Seems to me the risk is minimal with common sense hygiene, especially if condoms are used.
Cite?
Names and telephone numbers will do
Who wants to go to Denny’s for thier birthday!?
I’m still trying to figure out what this means.
Yes, I’ve been on the ramming end, so to speak. I’ve done it with my wife. About half of the women I’ve been intimate with have liked something up there, but we never managed to get me inside. In all seriousness with no intent to sound boastful, the common complaint has been that they couldn’t fit me in, despite the desire and plenty of lube and slow, gentle, patient effort. Considering some of the things I’ve seen used in women’s butts in porn, it’s a little hard to believe they couldn’t get my cock to fit, but we tried and tried to no avail.
My wife takes me there but with difficulty and discomfort; she says it feels like she’s taking a huge shit, which doesn’t translate to “sexy” for her. We only ever try a couple times a year, but the rest of the time she has so many creative ways to get me off that I don’t feel I’m lacking.
42, hetero.