Such sad news, Smashy. I wish you all the strength in the world.
i’m so sorry.
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I hope things turn out better for you, and in the meantime, I hope you find strength in yourself and in others to help you deal with the sadness of this news.
BIG HUGS!
SIC, I know miscarages suck, but please dont give up or EVER think of yourself as a failure. Engage in some positive activities untill your hubby gets home, then as the saying goes ‘try try again’.
Best wishes and good luck.
-x out
Oh my. I am so sorry to hear it. I’m thinking of you and your husband. 
I’m so sorry, SIC . I hope that whatever might be causing this is resolved for you.
Has the dr mentioned testing yet? From what I understand, 3 is the minimum before they check for other problems. If he’she hasn’t, you might want to suggest it.
Best wishes.
Self-pity? SIG, don’t put yourself down. I am so sorry for your loss.
Please see the doctor to find out why this keeps happening. If it helps, this is how I explained to my son (he was about five) why his aunt miscarried twins.
“The babies looked around and decided it wasn’t the right time for them to be born. They went away and will come back later.”
She now has two gorgeous little girls, about a year apart in age, but funny enough, almost the same height and weight. Seems she got her twins after all…
cry I’m so sorry. I had a miscarriage in the first 3 weeks once, and that was hard enough. At 9 weeks… you’re stronger than I am. I’d still be curled up behind the couch.
i’m so sorry this happened to you & your husband… I’m not able to empathize, but I can certainly sympathize, & I’m sending you good vibes. Don’t give up trying!
I just want to add my name to the list of Dopers who are here if you need us.
Bummer, SIC :(.
I’ve had several m/c and they suck. Genetic counselling is probably not indicated or even feasible at this stage (if you want details why, my addy is in my profile). Have you been checked for infection? Have a thorough pap smear once all this is over.
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I’m really sorry to hear that, Smashed. I hope things pick up for you.
Lauren
Wow, everyone, thanks again so much. I’m home from the D/c and going to sleep for a while now. I just wanted to come by and thank everyone again for your kind words and thoughts.
Sleep well.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
My thoughts are with you SIC.
I just can’t imagine…
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I’m so sorry.
You’re in our thoughts.
I am very sorry for your, and your husband’s, loss. It is a big-time, serious grief, not just self-pity. This link may give you some ideas on how to deal constructively with your pain.
I’m so sorry, hon.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
My Love,
Cheri
I’m so very sorry SIC.
Hugs for you and your hubby.