Shameless as the day is naked. I also don’t give a whit who knows what about me. Hell, you folks know more about me than my mom does.
I, for one, am proud that I have cast off the shackles of this disease. I am proud that I’m a 21st century boy instead of a Victorian era one with a socially embedded concept of propriety. I’m proud that I’m not a Manners Nazi and am able to appreciate people for who they are and the variety they bring to life rather than base my judgement of them on my own twisted upbringing. It felt great to finally throw off the blanket of values handed to me as a child and decide for myself what best suits me.
The both of you can just knock it off-this isn’t the BBQ Pit. Soapbox Monkey was just giving his opinion and what he honestly thought was support to Jennyrosity.
I have no shame at all, but I don’t usually post in sex threads, just because I’ve learned over the years that there is no reliable anonymity online. Just because I’m not ashamed of my experiences doesn’t mean that I’m willing to share them with my mom, say, or certain other people.
Yes, and that snippet was followed immediately by "and believe that somethings are better left in the bedroom, between the people who actually DO them."
I know that if I WAS getting laid, I wouldn’t be very happy to find out my girlfriend was talking about our sexcapades to her friends.
My daughter posts here also. If she keeps her personal anecdotes out of the sex threads, I will too. Sorta like the the old “mutually assured devastation” pacts.
I do however plan to continue giving medical information when indicated. Items like “did you know that certain battery-powered items can easily chip a tooth?” sort of stuff.
Jenny sweetheart, if you are a typical shy and reserved Englishwoman. We should have met a few years ago. I would love to meet a wild and sexy aggressive Jenny.
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I’m with Cowgirl and Sanguine Spider on this one, I LOVE doing it doggy style. If you’re not hugely endowed the deeper penetration is better for your partner, and it leaves her exposed for you to touch her. As for it being demeaning - well, if you love and respect someone, surely nothing you do can really be demeaning?
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The calorie content of sperm.
Hey Cecil, in your column on the calorie content of male ejaculation you say it has a high energy content. Does that mean it’d be possibe to survive on it, should it be necessary? I realise it would involve a phenomenal amount of bjs, I’m just wondering if it’s theoretically possible. Any thoughts people?
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Like Indygrrl, I’m pretty horny most of the time - my last bloke described me as having the sexdrive of a “boat-load of horny sailors who haven’t had it in six months”, but it does get A LOT worse when I’m ovulating. And like Little Plastic Ninja, I REALLY need a boyfriend! It’s a criminal waste of horniness.
And yeah, guys seem to be able to tell. I think it’s a pheremone thing - apparently you smell more alluring when you’re at your most fertile, although I don’t have a cite for this. Is there any equivilent thing for blokes, do you think?
Just a few of my favorite posts you have made since you arrived. I love you shy and silent type girls… good stuff
I don’t post often in such threads, not for shyness as some indicated above, but just the thought that say, my brother or dad could find my posts makes me shudder.
Yup yup yup. Same here. But of course, I certainly won’t shy away from giving strict factual information when it seems warranted. You know. Just… stuff. That I read. On the internet. Just out of intellectual curiosity.
Not really shy… but as a guy with an indifferent sex drive, I haven’t been very motivated to accumulate experience that would contribute to the discussion.
Sorry 'bout that Soapbox. I quoted what got my dander up. Some of your posts seem to come across as holier-than-thou, but perhaps I was reading them wrong. You getting laid or not has nothing to do with it. Next time I want to express an opinion like that I’ll chew on a sock for a while before I command my monkey to type.
I used to be the same way. But I discovered that being open and talkative online has helped me open up and NOT be so tongue-tied with my boyfriend. And when we first started dating (about the same time I started chatting online around 6 or so years ago), I was so unsure about talking about sex that I’d do the dorky “dig the toe in the carpet” thing and say things like “you know, stuff and things”.
I was so bad, that to this day if I say “stuff” OR “things” he’ll laugh at me and give me a hard time about it.
At first I’d think “Oh My GOD, I hope I never meet any of these people, after I just described how I [insert perverted act with my boyfriend here]”.
But then I did meet a whole bunch of people from online, (not dopers, a trivial pursuit chatroom I used to go to a lot). About 60 in all. And it was really cool. Almost everyone was the same IRL, as they were online. Maybe a bit more “There” but pretty much the same.
And we were just as obnoxious and irreverent about “stuff” IRL as we were online.
Now, I’m a wee bit of a prude, but I never felt any discomfort. Not even when we ended up in a rather interesting club in N’awlins called "The Dungeoun, and accidentally stumbled upon not one, but TWO sets of patrons having sex in cages (argh)!
We just laughed and said “Yikes, I guess this isn’t the way to get out”!
I mean, after all, don’t most people have sex with their SOs IRL, if they’re lucky? I don’t think anyone’s going to gasp and say “Oh, you hussy, you have oral sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend”. (I hope :D)
I thought the OP was asking about the “what do I do about X?” kind of “Sex threads” I haven’t yet seen the “bragging” or oneupsmanship kind that you’re talking about.
Why “properly ashamed”? I think you’re being, ummm, too hard on yourself. It’s a completely normal desire (between consenting adults, anyway), so why be ashamed of it?
I mean, come on, you wouldn’t have gotten the level of participation you did if others didn’t share your opinions.
Well, honestly, I’ve seen people post much more graphic and worse things around here. Perhaps it lowered the overall tone of the average of MPSIMS threads, but certainly not the average tone of sex-related threads.
