I hope that I am posting this in the right category and hopefully i should not be in Great Debates. If so SORRY(you can beat be with a bat or something)
ANyway…My question is…If you had to have a preference about the size of person to be with, would it be small, medium, or large? Any input would be greatly appreciated…or thoughts about body image in general…(This is part of what my paper is about) I have to get all my info from the net, So I figured this would be the perfect place to ask
Small. Then again, I’m 5’4" so I don’t have a lot of choice if I want to be the taller one in the relationship (which I do :)).
I’m 6’ and Ive always like my ladies to be between 5’ to 5.5’ myself.
I like to be significantly bigger than the woman I’m with because it makes me feel more masculine. (or a “protector” of sorts.) Its also more easy to be domineering sexually too.
Oddly enough When i used to date…i could not date anyone that was not taller than me…it used to freak me out
The girl either has to be shorter than me by about 6" (I’m 6’) or right around my height (at least 5’10"). Anything else and it just doesn’t jive well with me.
I’m comfortable with someone a bit larger than me…I’m 5’3" and happy with my 5’9" husband. He’s juuuust about right.
Big men intimidate me.
HTH
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Within a few of inches of me in height. I’m 6’00", and I like women to be 5’9" or taller. I’ve never dated a woman that was more than an inch taller than me, but that was fine.
That said, size is a minor issue, and I’ve dated extremely short women. It’s more about attitude and personality than anything else. Looks come next, and height (or lack thereof) comes a distant third.
I’m about 5’9", and I prefer the girl to be shorter than me.
I’m 5’9" and have dated women from 5’4" to 6’2", and height hasn’t mattered at all. I’ve also dated women ranging from skinny to very not skinny, and I’ve preferred skinny, but I never let that decide whether or not I was attracted to someone.
You don’t coach a wife through two pregnancies without developing an appreciation for the larger-than-average female form.
I’m 5’9 and my boyfriend is about a half inch taller than me. Depending on our shoes I can be the tall one or he can, its kinda fun actually trying to figure out who is really taller. I’m also a thick girl and at first I was self concious about being around him cause he’s tall and skinny (just the way I like 'em) but size doesn’t matter cause we match perfectly.
Size doesn’t matter much to be but I’ve never been much for extremely muscular guys, to many muscles is icky. :-p
I’m 5’1" and I hate men that are much taller than me. As I say “if they tripped they might crush me flat.” I’m currently dating a guy who’s 5’10" and he’s the tallest I’ve ever dated, right on the edge of my comfort zone. Most of 'em have been about 5’6"-ish.
Are we talking about height or penis length? Common sense tells me the former, but Laura tells me college papers are different now.
No, George, my penis is 5’ 9" long. Honest.
I like men that are at least 4" taller than me. I once dated a guy that was 6’6", and I’m 5’4". Never bothered me at all.
I’m a 6’1" male. I find especially tall women incredibly sexy. Not big hulking people, but tall porportioned women.
I’m 5’ 6" and the (few) guys I dated were at least 6’ tall.
I did go out with someone about my height & it felt a but funny.
The guy I married is 6’ 4" tall, as is my dad.
I don’t care, im not size prejudiced.
If we’re going perfectly superfically here, I want tall guys. Taller the better. 6’4" as a minimum.
I’m six feet in socks.
I’m currently with a guy shorter than me, and y’know…it doesn’t matter. He can still dominate me just fine (was that TMI) and he holds me in his arms and we snuggle perfectly.
I go for taller. (Then again at my height, it’s the rare guy [sup]i.e.- someone who’s reached full growth[/sup] who’s shorter than I.)
Essentially, they need to be tall enough that I’ll fit nicely under their chin. Makes for better hugs and cuddling.
For size as in weight (stick, middle-of-the-road, gives-a-Mack-truck-a-run-for-its-money, etc.), errr… I would say they need to be in porportion. Someone with a really delicate build, but weighs enough to have to use the large postal scale to figure out their weight: nope. Someone with a large build, but weighs so little a puff of air might break 'em: nope. And definately NOT over muscled. No one who looks like those guys in professional weightlifter’s compititions need apply.
(Just to be nice and superficial here: I’ll leave the personality, etc., for a different thread.)
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Well, considering that I’m 5", I better be happy with people who are taller than me. The person I’m with is 5’9" and that’s just fine for me, though much taller and I imagine my comfort level would go down a bit. Basically, though, hight isn’t what I’m considering when I’m getting in a relationship with someone.