are good-looking guys unattractive?

[Toonces]

I know what you mean about finding some good-looking guys unattractive- I just saw a movie this weekend with Pierce Brosnan in it. Now he’s a pretty nice looking guy, but he does nothing for me. I told my hubs this, and he found it hard to believe. My husband is a “normal” guy, but I find him incredibly sexy. The kicker is, I am very overweight- more than just a few pounds, if you know what I mean- and he has no problems with that. What I’m saying here is you never know what you will find attractive unitl you meet that certain someone!

Toonces

PS I don’t think it’s shallow at all to not be attracted to someone (initially) b/c of their physical appearance. For example, I don’t find large men particulary attractive, even though I’m large myself!

[Jodi]

FUZZY – I think there’s a lot of truth to what you (and others) have said about confidence making people attractive. And maybe thinking of it as “just practice” or telling yourself you don’t care about the outcome allows people to appear more confident when they ask someone out. But there’s something about a person who is comfortable in his or her own skin that is very attractive – regardless of what the person looks like.

My SO never was the object of flirtation (or so he says) until he hooked up with me. Now he’s happy and confident about how I feel about him (I’m not very good at playing hard to get) – so women hit on him all the time. The tramps.

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Jodi

Fiat Justitia