Ask the guy who just lost his virginity

Sorry for my temporary absence as of late. Between having a lame internet connection at home, school, work, and spending more time with my girl, I haven’t had too much time for posting lately.

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The “She finished, I didn’t” part is probably more positive than negative. I assume you’re just used to your hand. Maybe a lot. Lay off on that or concentrate on orgasming with less “hand” time and you should find the vagina does a great job.

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Oh, I’m finding it easy to orgasm now. It’s definitely a different experience than when I orgasm from masturbation.

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Congrats, Joe! Any more details you can share about that first time, and in particular the aftermath, would be very interesting to many of us, I’d wager. Hope all’s well with you both.

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Everything is peachy keen! We’ve been spending a lot of time together and she says I’m constantly getting better. We were together this entire weekend cooking for each other and driving all over the city for different events. In bed we’re experimenting with different positions and spots to see what works best on each other. All in all, it’s a lot of fun :slight_smile: .

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What was your biggest surprise about the whole act?
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Honestly, I wasn’t surprised too much by anything. I’ve done an extensive amount of reading, so I was pretty well prepared mentally for whatever was going to go down.

With having said that, if anyone out there is feeling insecure about their knowledge of sex and wants to be fully prepared before getting into bed with someone else, I fully, whole heartedly recommend a book that I read from front to back and enjoyed thoroughly: The Guide to Getting it On.

It’s probably the most informative, detailed, and extensive book on sex you’ll find. It’s also laugh out loud funny for all of it’s 800 pages, and that’s saying a lot coming from a someone with as jaded as a sense of humor as myself.