This thread seems suspiciously oriented toward “promiscuity males”.
I was afraid this would happen, since women may not be as comfortable giving out this sort of information. But I figured the SDMB was fairly liberal so I’d have more feedback from women but maybe not…
In any case, I encourage more women to fill out the survey. Please?
I’d have said rather the opposite, Considering the posts from Ethilrist, BigT, Trinopus and myself (and by extension, dracoi).
“Virginity males”?
There’s a middle ground, too, it just doesn’t lend itself to a catchy label.
Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: pure hetero
Relationship Status: Married, 13 years
Age: 37
**Location: **Minneapolis - says so right up there, upper right, so it’d be weird to be cagey about it here. 
**Experiences: **No - married my high school sweetheart (after I’d graduated college)
**Attitude in regard to self: **Not now; I value my marriage far too highly for that. If something happens to my marriage or husband? Maybe; depends on the circumstances and guy.
Attitude in regard to others: Be safe, and be good to yourself. Other than that, who’m I to say what works for you?
Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: hetero
Relationship Status: Single now and forever
Age: 49
Location: Montreal.
Experiences: Way way too many to list and a lot to be forgotten anyways
Attitude in regard to self: Not really interested anymore in casual sex.
Attitude in regard to others: Respect yourself, have fun and be safe… who am I to judge anybody out there!
Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: hetero
Relationship Status: married
Age: 35
Location: Indiana
Experiences: None–all my sex has been in the context of a serious relationship
Attitude in regard to self: No moral qualms, but I’m mr. awkward in every conceivable way when it comes to social interaction with strangers so I can’t even imagine a pleasant casual sex experience taking place were I to actually try to have one. Plus. A condom would be a necessity, and I’m of course that guy who has great distaste for the feeling of sex with a condom.
Attitude in regard to others: I can’t imagine what is supposed to be wrong with casual sex.
Dude, that’s every guy. They aren’t worn for fun.
ETA: Well, they’re worn for fun to be had, they’re no fun in and of themselves. 
**Gender: **F
Sexual Orientation: Straight
**Relationship Status:**Single, but would prefer to find an SO.
Age: 54
Location: Colorado
Experiences: There have been a few one night stands, but they were not my intention. I would have preferred it to be the start of something, but was the victim of a hit and run instead…that kind of thing. The vast majority of my sexual experiences (and the most fun, and pleasurable sex) has been within a LTCR.
**Attitude in regard to self: **Avoid it like the plague. Once I figured out (didn’t take more than a couple of them) who was just trying to get laid), I made sure to the best of my abilities that to avoid those types.
Attitude in regard to others: Kind of bothers me a bit how it seems to be the preferred goal. The more it’s accepted as the Holy Grail of sexuality by seemingly everyone, the less others (who would like to find a relationship) have a chance. And it’s also kind of annoying to be on the receiving end of the whole “what? what’s wrong with me?” PUA pressure tactics.
Band name. A really bad band name but band name nonetheless.
I suppose this was my attitude before, not now that I’m 50 with a 10-year old daughter:
Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: hetero
Relationship Status: WHILE single
**Age: **18-36 (married late)
Location: Catholic Philippines
Experiences: ONS with a married woman, short party flings, a few take-homes from a bar, several eyeballs on the internet. Interesting the last one: they were sex-eyeballs, a meeting just for sex with no likely follow-through.
**Attitude in regard to self: ** basically a late bloomer wondering where my youth had gone
Attitude in regard to others: you have them (decent but willing women) everywhere. I cannot for the life of me understand porn, rape, and all forms of lechery. Prostitution, I can dig.
I sometimes wonder if they’re “worse” for me than for most people, because seriously, I’d rather have no sex than sex with a condom. But we’re getting into TMI territory here…
Ambivalid, do you have anything to actually contribute to this thread, or are you just here to snark on those who do?
Gender: Male
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Relationship Status: Married
Age: 41
Location: Hoboken, NJ
Experiences: A fair number of random hookups in my college days and 20s.
Attitude in regard to self: Well, I’m married now, which I take seriously. But if I wasn’t, the first think I would do is sign up for those phone apps the 20-something single guys at work use.
Attitude in regard to others: People can do what they please. Although I do have a bit of disdain for women who hook up for the purpose of self-validation or men who hook up like they are trying to punish someone.
They are if you turn the “ribbed for her pleasure” ones inside out.
Here’s mine:
Gender: Male
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Relationship Status: Married
Age: 41
Location: Dallas, TX
Experiences: One internet hookup, one confused NYE adventure.
Attitude in regard to self: Married, so no real desire or time anymore for that kind of thing. If I was single, I’d be all over it. Sometimes you just want to get laid, you know, and without all the baggage that comes with a relationship.
Attitude in regard to others: Never had a problem with it; actually found the more… willing girls more attractive as long as they weren’t desperate self-esteem cases, since the willing and non-desperate ones aren’t playing games and seem to know what they want, which is sexy with a capital “S”.
Am I offending you? 
And I wouldn’t call my posts here “snark” exactly. Pretty weak snark if so.
I’m not offended, but you aren’t really adding anything to the thread, either.
Are you offended? You responses seem to be looking for things to take people to task for.
Huh? I don’t even know what to say to that. Show me an example of how I’ve “taken someone to task” in this thread. Very odd. I believe I’ve made three posts in this thread, prior to this one. One was just a question of clarification, nothing more; one was a fucking joke and the last one was me saying how no guy likes to wear a condom. WTF is your problem? Anyway, I’ll end this unfortunate hijack. Sorry folks.
Asking Antinor01 if he plans to cheat on his marriage, and implying that every guy who’s not promiscuous is a virgin seem to have a certain amount of snark to them. And very little else.