I normally don’t post in IMHO, but after careful consideration I felt this subject is too person specific & emotional to try GQ. But this isn’t GD so no judging good/bad etc.
My question is pretty simple: In terms of people who consider themselves 100% gay/lesbian (not bi or bi-curious etc.) how does one lose their virginity? I’ll just be blunt:
[li]For guys I assume just oral (give/receive) doesn’t qualify. Sooooo, once you’re a full-fledged top or bottom, is that ‘officially’ losin’ it?[/li][li]For girls, I don’t even know were to begin. Assuming the same rule about oral not being enough, ahhhhhhh, then what is?[/li][/ul]
I know, we shouldn’t overly concern ourselves with labels or mechanics, once you feel you’ve had your definition of ‘sex’ with someone then you’d consider yourself not a virgin. But are there any generally accepted rules/customs amongst the gay/lesbian community?
If it matters I’m a boring hetero male…