How often do guys really think about sex?
My boyfriend is always horny and so I figured it must be every like 2.3 seconds. How do you de-hornify a guy?
Sometimes I try to gross him out by mentioning my period to get him out of the mood, but what if that doesnt work either???
Hmmm
:rolleyes: :o :smack:
We think about it a lot and there is no real way to de-hornify a guy, it’s just how some of us are and something we have to live with. I’m guessing that you and your BF are in your teens.
Why in the heck would you want to do that?!
Jeez, taking away a guy’s sexual thoughts is as cruel as pulling the wings off a fly :eek:
Just wait untill you both hit 35 and your sex drive goes through the roof while his is long gone.
When around a woman, yes we pretty much think about sex constantly. When not around a woman, we only think about sex every 2.3 seconds!
Oh, and there’s a lot you can still do when you’re on your period, so don’t think that’s going to make him think about anything else.
Yea, well. Him n I are both in our teens and you r right, tellin him about my prd. only got his mind rolling (even thoe he desnt think sex is gross durin that either)
Wait until he is asleep or forty.
Regards,
Agback
Forty? Didn’t work for my dad. Try sixtyish… that’s more reasonable.
You have much to learn, Grasshopper.
UncleBill
Age 36
When men do lose interest in sex (around age 36) they rarely admit it.
Peace,
mangeorge
My wife has found that really mind blowing sex delays my return to horniness for much longer than a simple quickie would. After truly great sex I can go for 2 or 3 days before I start to feel the need again. (I’m not saying I don’t think about it, I just don’t NEED it like usual.) Whereas with a lesser form I am often fully horny again in an hour or so. YMMV
My ex, who was in his early forties, was QUITE horny. Granted, some of that may have been new-relationship-horny, but nonetheless, the man was NOT faking it!
As a 41-year-old, let me clarify. My sex drive is not “long gone.” I still think about sex an order of magnitude more than my wife does, at least.
However, I am able to complete thoughts of other things without them being interrupted by sex thoughts. This was not the case 20 years ago. It’s actually somewhat liberating.
The only time that I don’t think about sex, and I do mean the only time, is the first 30 seconds after I’ve just had sex.
Testosterone has something to do with it.
(If you don’t know- that’s the male sex hormone. Female to male transexuals and women who take testosterone report a higher sex drive. It may not be drastically higher, but it is somewhat higher.)
Society also has to do with it.
(Guys should go get it every chance they can like its the last time they might ever get it. That’s kind of what society says to guys. Some are more immune than others. Younger guys are more succeptable.)
What can you do about it? Speaking as a high libido (sex drive) guy myself… Nothing really. But make sure you discuss with him how it makes you feel. Use protection for heavens sake (to avoid pregnancy and STDs use a condom every time). And make sure when you do have sex, make sure you enjoy it. Don’t let him get away with not satisfying you. Show him how to do it.
Random Other Ways I Can Think Of (Without Him Wanting to Break Up):
Does the name Loreena Bobbit mean anything to you?
How often do girls really think about sex?
My girlfriend is never horny and so I figured it must be every like 2.3 years. How do you hornify a girl?
Develop a pill called “anti-Viagra”…
Margo
Just so you know, my sex drive went through the roof when I started taking oral estrogen, and if anything got even higher when I started taking spironolactone, which is a testosterone antagonist.
Don’t try to blame horniness on testosterone.
I don’t know about that, see, my bf is 41, I’m 27, and his libido is definitely much stronger than mine.
I asked him once, in an ideal world, how much sex he’d like per day. He said: well, 3 times would be a good average. Right after waking up, when I get home from work, and right before falling asleep.
It’s ME who can’t keep up!