suggestions (suggestive talks, erotic stories) and seduction might be your best bet there!
Take your time turing a woman on, if she knows there’s going to be at least 20 minutes foreplay, she’ll definitely be more willing (gives her time to warm up, see, most women are Diesels in bed, keep that in mind )
Then he’s been doing a really good job of faking interest.
You could leave him.
Seriously. If he consistently does something that you can’t stand, it may be the only real option. Dump him and shack up with someone a little nearer the edge of the bell-curve.
At least that is what I’m sure Dan Savage
…would say
Wow, okay. Umm where to start? I dohe is a sweet cute guy. How to hornify a chick on the other hand, try subtle ways of getting her interest… like sucking on her ear or rubbing her back or something… I dont know, be creative ;o)
I wish there was just somehting I could say to him that would totally turn him off, or better yet, a SWITCH!
I dont want to break up with him*** Sorry about that, I am in an English Lab right now and Im not sposed to be doing this so I am trying to type fast and not get caught! School Blows!
Well, from my point of view as a very hornified teenage male, there isn’t really a way to get him unhorny… actually, one of the funniest ways was when I was on a stint to see how long I could go without choking a certain member of the clergy, and my best friend (also male) decided to try to beat me. After about a week, your libido starts getting wonky, but I would say that I was less horny on average when I wasn’t than when I was.
I what way? 
:smack: :wally
Speak for yourself. I’m 43 and just as horny as I was when I was 19. Fortunately, I’m getting a lot more now than I was then.
There is a switch, you just need to grab it, and flick it up and down a hundred times or so. Bang, off he goes. 
In general, young men think about sex a great deal primarily because nothing else in their lives is really all that interesting. They usually have lousy jobs, lousy cars, and insensitive, castrating girlfriends.
As they get older, their jobs improve, their conditions improve, and many of them find romantic companions who don’t try to rule their lives. Then they have other things to occupy their minds.
All these replies and no one’s mentioned having a two-year old in the house?
Dogface it certainly sounds likeyou are speaking from experience.
And it really depends on the person, too. My wife has always had a much higher sex drive than I. For her I think 2.3 seconds is conservative.
JC, why bother? She’s just a kid looking for some advice, we don’t want to scare her into celibecy.
To all those who replied to my hornifying women comment, that was an exact reversal of the OP to suggest that perhaps it wasn’t the BF who needed to change his mind. To all those women suggesting ways to unhornify a guy, I hope that someday there is a spider sitting on your toilet (for those deathly afraid of spiders) when you absolutely have to go, and the BF says he isn’t really interested in getting rid of spiders now, could you just take care of things yourself? Or maybe you could just sit on the couch and hold each other until you don’t have to go anymore?
As to how to hornify women elfje, I have made that my life’s work and you would be surprised how many of them actually aren’t too fond of foreplay (I love it).
To all those who replied to my hornifying women comment, that was an exact reversal of the OP to suggest that perhaps it wasn’t the BF who needed to change his mind. To all those women suggesting ways to unhornify a guy, I hope that someday there is a spider sitting on your toilet (for those deathly afraid of spiders) when you absolutely have to go, and the BF says he isn’t really interested in getting rid of spiders now, could you just take care of things yourself? Or maybe you could just sit on the couch and hold each other until you don’t have to go anymore?
As to how to hornify women elfje, I have made that my life’s work and you would be surprised how many of them actually aren’t too fond of foreplay (I love it).
I heard a report on this topic on NPR recently (odd the stuff you can find there) and the expert suggested to women to suck it up (ahem) and go for it much more than you would naturally like to. Consider it a deposit into building a lasting relationship, not to mention once things get rolling you will often be glad you did.
Actually, I thought about sex a LOT while I was having it, more than I ever had. And now that I’m not having it, I think about it a lot because I MISS it!
All I know is that I’m at my peak fertile days in my cycle right now and I can’t keep my mind from wandering …
I can’t wait to get home from work today!!!
flight,
come on, it’s not a women’s duty anymore to please her man. If we say no, it’s no. If i’m not in the mood, then i’m not in the mood. Women do have (in general) lower sex drives than men, and it’s not up to women to solve that problem. As you pointed out, they can help themselves, can’t they? I do agree that physical contact is essential in a relationship. Regular sex helps to keep the same level of intimacy. I’m all for that. But I used to have a boyfriend that wanted to hum every day, and if i wasn’t in the mood, He’d blame me for not loving him anymore (or not enough).
Women need to know that if they refuse, their boyfriends won’t mind. I buckled under that demand of “sex every day or we’ll have a major fight/argument”.
I did feel as if it was my fault that I didn’t want to have more sex.
So, please be considerate to your partner, they might do it out of “love” but they’ll still feel pressured into it, and that’s NOT a nice feeling, believe you me. It makes you feel very cheap.
flight,
come on, it’s not a women’s duty anymore to please her man. If we say no, it’s no. If i’m not in the mood, then i’m not in the mood. Women do have (in general) lower sex drives than men, and it’s not up to women to solve that problem. As you pointed out, they can help themselves, can’t they? I do agree that physical contact is essential in a relationship. Regular sex helps to keep the same level of intimacy. I’m all for that. But I used to have a boyfriend that wanted to hum every day, and if i wasn’t in the mood, He’d blame me for not loving him anymore (or not enough).
Women need to know that if they refuse, their boyfriends won’t mind. I buckled under that demand of “sex every day or we’ll have a major fight/argument”.
I did feel as if it was my fault that I didn’t want to have more sex.
So, please be considerate to your partner, they might do it out of “love” but they’ll still feel pressured into it, and that’s NOT a nice feeling, believe you me. It makes you feel very cheap.
And your last comment i find very condescending: we’ll be glad we did, will we? We’ll change out mind, cos we’re only feeble minded women, is that it? As if we don’t know our own bodies and minds! We don’t need men to tell us what we like and what we don’t like, we can make up our own minds, thanks very much.
How come men can’t restrain themselves and like that help to “build a lasting relationship”? To actually respect their partners wishes?