Is there some physical sign in a guys face or body that indicates to a woman that he is having sex with someone? You know like with his wife or girlfriend? So they don’t want to get involved with him?
Also seems some women can tell just looking at a guy if he is cheating on her or not.
Like some sort of intuition? Hmmmmm
It’s probably not the same for all guys but it seems to me when I have a sexual partner other women are much much nicer. hmmm.
When you’ve been around a man for a while, you can pick up a lot of things. Most won’t look you in the eye if they are lying, and if they do it’s like with a hard gaze instead of normal. There are lots of signs.
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Guys make a lot of humorous faces while they’re having sex. I think, however, that just looking down a little lower to the pelvic region is a better indicator of whether or not they’re having sex… if there is a naked person attached to their penis, it’s a pretty good indicator.
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I had a wise-ass comment all ready about how if she can’t tell, he is definitely doing something wrong…then I saw you meant when she isn’t the one actually having sex with him.
Sigh. Off to find a thread to use my clever line in.
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You ladies make humorous faces too, I believe (been awhile for me).
Actually, no. I’ll tell you the secret. There’s a top secret women-only website where we list who we’re fucking on any sort of regular basis. This way we keep track of all y’all and report back to each other if you’re getting out of line.
And, unfortunately, now that I’ve told you, I have to kill you. Sorry. Next time, don’t ask.
Well, if my ex-girlfriend is on it, it must use a hell of a lot of band-width…
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When I’m having sex with someone, I’m usually naked. And so is she. We’re both naked, moving around and making funny noises. That’s usually a pretty good indication that we are having sex.
If he’s wearing a wedding ring that’s no longer shiny new, he hasn’t been getting any for years. Every guy in the lockerroom will confirm this clue.
Can a woman tell if a guy is having sex?
Almost everytime…especially if his thingie is going in and out of her thingie.
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Since what you’re really looking for in your guy’s face is not a sign that he’s having sex but that he’s lying, I wonder if there’s a whole series of different signals a guy gives off for different sorts of lying. Suppose monogamy is expected for a couple. Can a woman see each of the following in the guy’s face?
He’s absolutely faithful and isn’t even thinking about another woman.
He’s begun to obsess about a woman he sees daily, even though he’s hardly talked to her.
He regualarly talks with a woman and even flits with her, but they haven’t done anything physical yet.
He kissed her.
He got a blow job from her, but, hey, it’s not like that’s sex.
He’s had sex with her once but isn’t sure if he wants this to continue.
He’s having sex with her on a regular basis, but it’s just an affair. It isn’t like he’s about to leave his wife (or girlfriend).
He’s on the verge of leaving his wife (or girlfriend).
Or suppose that the couple are in an open relationship. Are there different signals for all of the following?
He hasn’t had sex with anyone else yet.
He has had sex, but it’s just sex. It isn’t even the same woman each time.
It is the same woman each time, but it’s just sex. He’s not leaving his girlfriend or wife.
It’s just one woman, and he’s thinking of leaving his girlfriend or wife.
And are their similar signals for non-sexual lying? Is there a signal for each of the following thoughts of a guy?
I’ve been gambling away the mortgage payments each month without mentioning it to you, and we’re about to lose the house.
I don’t care if you don’t like my drinking. Despite what I’ve promised, I’m going to keep getting drunk at every chance.
I’ve just made you all better about my cheating on you because I just confessed everything I did and promised I would never do it again, but I have no intention of keeping that promise.
Every few weeks I pick up a prostitute and torture and kill her, but, hey, I never actually have sex with her.
If it works the same for a girl as for a guy, then there will be a subtle change in the attitude. Something vague and missing from their eyes when they talk to you, especially when you start getting intimate. A slightly distracted look, a change in their emotional warmth, a faint pulling away and perhaps, looking just a bit too good when they go out.
Check for unusual charge slips in his pockets or hotel receipts. I caught an ex-fiancé that way once. While I was off working 2 jobs to get her out of debt, her attitude subtly changed, on the occasions we had sex, she drank a bit more and sometimes started to ‘fumble’ my name once or twice. Then I found the motel receipts in her purse, interestingly dated on days I worked 12 hours.
THAT confrontation was interesting. Especially when I managed to get off work early a few times and spotted her and a male coworker from her job putting around in MY truck. Pretty girl but not the brightest bulb in the box.
That relationship ended fast. Just look for subtle clues – and see what he might be hiding in his pockets.
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Crap! I really need to read ALL of a post!
Yeah, there does seem to be some form of mysterious clues women pick up on when a man is ‘taken,’ probably because he acts not interested or not all that interested.
Unless you’re a damn good actor, I suggest you don’t cheat. If your girl is reasonably bright, you’ll get caught. If you care for her, a bit of guilt will eventually seep through and she’ll probably pick up on it. If you’re a slug, who doesn’t care about her feelings, then maybe not. If she cares a lot for you, have you considered the emotional pain she’ll go through when you get caught?
Personally, I prefer a punch in the face over finding out that a lover is cheating on me. A punch stings for a day or three, but an emotional rip takes months to get over. If you want to cheat, then you have to have understandings. I have had many a pleasurable relationship with good, close female friends who also had other lovers and knew I had a few too.
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…she may begin douching twice a day.
Usually, unless he has an exceptionally small pee pee.
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welllllllll…you could ask. One question that people don’t seem to ask [correct me on this] is, ‘Are you having sexual experiences [not ‘sleeping’, which is too obscure, or ‘sex’, which is too obscure] with anyone else?’
