Potential TMI…
Extra lube is good, but be careful not to use too much on the inside. One of my guy friends has a funny story about having to fish a condom out of his boyfriends butt. Lube is good. Too much lube is bad.
Well, one more thing about condoms. After you ejaculate, you have to remove your penis from her vagina ASAP. You don’t want to deflate and spill the condom contents inside her vagina.
“Word” on points one and two.
Spermicidal jelly, film, and foam are all widely available and the jelly is pretty cheap. My clinic sells them for around ten bucks a tube, which lasts for a pretty long time. In my completely unscientific observations through personal use and talking to a bajillion women about their birth control methods of choice, I’ve found the following to be (generally) trueish. The gel tends to stay in place better but some folks find it more irritating. The foam is messier but for women with sensitive bits tends to be less irritating. You’ll need to plan ahead at least a few minutes with the film to allow it to dissolve against her cervix, or you may find bits of it stuck to the end of your condom. These are definitely the tidiest, but she does need to be comfy inserting it up against her cervix.
Nonoxynol-9 causes microscopic abrasions in the vaginal wall and potentially the penis. Normally not noticeable, if you’re sensitive to latex you might not like them. These microabrasions can make you more susceptible to transmission of STDs including HIV, so please do not use them if you have multiple partners, your partner has multiple partners, or any time you’re unsure of your partner’s STD/HIV status. In a mutually monogamous situation, they’re an excellent backup to barrier methods or fertility awareness methods.
I like them as an alternative to hormonal birth control and supplemental to fertility awareness, but they can be messy and inconvenient and I won’t use them if oral sex appears to be on the horizon or will insert them partway through.
I forgot to add that Planned Parenthood says you can keep the condom in your wallet for no more than 48 hours–so okay for the evening out, but take it out as soon as you get home if it’s unused, don’t store in your wallet long-term.
*or your own.
how do you prevent the condom from not sliding?
Don’t lube the interior?
Honestly, if you apply a condom to your erect penis, and remove it before you lose your erection, there is almost no chance the condom will slip off. You have much greater worries of breakage., as condoms tend to fit quite snugly around the base of the penis in order to prevent this.
If you still do have issues with this, Trojan sells a “snug-fit” brand that is intended for men who have significantly thinner penises than normal. If you have issues with those, perhaps look into finger-cots? 
Thanks for all the responses once again!
I just have one more quick condom question.(I cant find the answer anywhere.) sorry…
I was wondering which condom out there is the least likely to break? I dont care about how thin it is or whatever, but I cant find a website that rates them or anything. If I ever plan on having sex again in the future I just want to be prepared…and my number 1 fear is a condom breaking. Any help would be appreciated. thanks again!
I can’t speak to the statistics, but if you’re worried about breakage, I suspect you want to avoid the ones that say “ultra-thin” or “extra sensitive”.
Incidentally, I just spent some time on Trojan’s website.
Prettiest, least helpful website I’ve seen in years.
On edit:
Both Trojan and Durex have “extra strength” varieties.
You can find them pictured at this sales page:
http://www.condomusa.com/7strength.asp
Ok, I just want to say a lot of people are being pretty hard on him. He’s (apparently) young and stupid (or rather young and did a stupid thing). But he knows it. He just needs to know that pre-ejaculate can cause pregnancy as can post cum. But it’s not likely.
But it’s possible. But not likely. But possible.
But who here has never given into the whiles of lust at some point? Cut him some slack.
Anyway, unbrok3npp, go with god, have a lot more sex, but get a pregnancy test done as soon as reasonble, and next time come (ahem) prepared so you won’t have to chew you fingernails off for days.
OK, I’m gonna be a dick here, probably. I remember reading a book called “Tough Call” by Mike Rowe, who used to be a writer for The Onion, and he would call up places like a butcher shop and pretend to be a naive teen who was concerned that his vegetarian friends were going to make him stop eating meat so he would ask the butcher shop person to validate his meat-eating ways and he would have all sorts of ridiculous questions and pretend that he was TOTALLY sheltered from what most people would consider “common knowledge” and he would pretty much keep it going as long as possible to get as much mileage as possible from the conversation. Am I the ONLY person that thinks that this thread smacks of that kind of vibe? If you’ve read the book, you know what I’m talking about.
Now, the disclaimer: If this is legit, I fully apologize, and sincerely hope that you and your girlfriend find a way to enjoy your relationship fully without unnecessary risks.
You’re are definitely not the only one. But this is GQ.
No, you are not the only one.
In fact a pit thread was started 2 pages ago.
I’ve done my best to provide factual and helpful answers along the way to the OP, but I would encourage our new member to go participate and even start new threads. Almost all of the information he has been looking for already exist on this thread.
Dear unbrok3npp, we understand that you are young and a lot of these things are new to you, but this thread has gotten pretty old. Speaking for myself, it would be nice to see you around, but hanging around and contributing in other areas.
ETA: **Beaucarnea **is one of my favorite members, forever. Because of this thread.
Really? Was it a nondescript thread title or something? Due to my inherent laziness I just took a quick survey of thread titles over the past few days and saw nothing that seemed relevant to this situation. Link, pretty please with a cherry on top?
Nondescript, and older than I recall. I apologize. In it I come to the defense of the OP, as well as some well-intentioned members. But my loyalties are beginning to fail.
Oh, thank you, bbsweets! I had started same title and topic for a Pit Thread, then found yours just before I posted. Needless to say, I agree with your POV completely. It’s silly to expect that all of us have the same upbringing and interests, or the same level of experience and maturity.
And unbrok3pp, I never doubted your sincerity or your good intentions, but at this point, you are just bragging.
When you decide to come up for air, here are some possible topics for discussion: a) ** Help Me Pick My Major b)** Does Anyone Want to Hear About How Awesome My Cat Is, With Pics! **c) ** How Should I Propose d) I Haven’t Gotten Out Much Lately, What’s Been Going On in the World?