For those of you who have had intercourse that involved an erect penis entering another human being’s below-the-waste orifice: Was there a condom on aforementioned erect penis when it entered aforementioned below-the-waste orifice-- when either your penis penetrated, or your orifice was penetrated, for the very first time?
Poll coming, private.
Our protection was a diaphragm and a reasonable degree of confidence that neither of us had any STD’s - no condoms.
I don’t have any orifices below the waste orifice.
I’ll have to let you know when the time comes…
My first sex was unsafe. We thought that everything could be cured with penicillin, back then. I WAS on the Pill, so I was not risking pregnancy.
Very. We used a condom, and I wouldn’t sleep with him unless he’d been tested. I was a virgin.
Not safe at all. In my defense, it was the seventies.
Well, that would depend on your position…
I find it very strange that the OP appears to define “safe sex” as equaling “condom”. In my case he was wearing one, but it wasn’t the only precaution I took.
Damn! Well, condom was used, but we were in a basement at her place with no door up the stairs, so our VOLUME was safe. If her dad heard us…
It was the 70’s. I was 16, and she was 17.
I used a condom due to all the information I had received from my parents and also from sex education classes at school.
I was finally getting laid - you think I was going to stop to look for a condom?
After the first time, we came prepared.
Safety was not uppermost on my mind at that time.
I was perfectly safe; I didn’t tell her my real name!
We started with a condom, couldnt get it to fit, so continued without one…
Condom, the pill, at home, knew his parents. The most danger I was in was falling off the bed.
And it was really lovely too
Newly married, my wife and I both virgins, she had gotten fitted for a diaphragm. Three kids and forty eight years later, I have still never used a condom.
No condom on me or my hand.
It was the 70s, prior to the discovery of condoms.
Ew.
I brought condoms. She fell asleep, and I decided that the gentlemanly thing to do was to let her sleep (very long and exhausting day), so we didn’t use them that night. I found out later that her friends were impressed.