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Kozmik’s point is that if it was brokepp’s first time, which led to his question about how he knew it was about to happen.
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This is a question you should ask think over…
[QUOTE=unbrok3npp]
i dont what happens when you ejacluate, but you know its comming…
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He would know if he’s about to ejaculate but he couldn’t have known if his girlfriend was about to ejaculate. How sure of himself. He obviously was able to control a sitution - with two people involved. After all, he’s never been in such a sitution in his life. You took a risk, unbrok3npp, and you got help from here. I’m glad everything worked out for you. But you remember - sex is not a game. Please, think about the consequences for you and other in the future. I hope that you learn from this experience.
[QUOTE=Slacker]
And I assume you’ve experienced that feeling many times. Kozmik’s point is that if it was brokepp’s first time, which led to his question about how he knew it was about to happen. I would imagine most first time experiences are closer to what DesertDog posted.
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I don’t think so. I knew when it was going to happen the first time for me. It’s a pretty obvious feeling.
[QUOTE=Kozmik]
He would know if he’s about to ejaculate but he couldn’t have known if his girlfriend was about to ejaculate. How sure of himself. He obviously was able to control a sitution - with two people involved. After all, he’s never been in such a sitution in his life. You took a risk, unbrok3npp, and you got help from here. I’m glad everything worked out for you. But you remember - sex is not a game. Please, think about the consequences for you and other in the future. I hope that you learn from this experience.
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You didn’t say anything about HER ejaculation you said :
The answer is the same way every other male mammal has ever known it since the beginning of time. It’s a sensation that all but clubs you over the head and says “you’re about to spooje.”
The OP didn’t say anything about HER ejaculating.
What would a hypothetical female ejaculation (which are kind of like tigers – beautiful but not often seen in the wild) have to do with the price of tea anyway? Female ejaculation has zip to do with pregnancy so it isn’t necessary for the male to anticipate it (especially since it’s usually not going to happen anyway).
Don’t confuse this kid any more than he already is. Unbrok3npp, let me assure you that you do not have to concern yourself with possible female ejculations. It has no physiological relevance to whether or not she’ll get pregnant. Chances are, you’ll never see one outside of a porno but if you do, just enjoy it.
[QUOTE=Kozmik]
But you remember - sex is not a game. Please, think about the consequences for you and other in the future. I hope that you learn from this experience.
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Just because the game has rules and breaking them could land you in trouble does not mean it isn’t a game. It’s one of the most fun ones out there.
[QUOTE=unbrok3npp]
Ok, not sure how many times i have to say it. Whether im the minority or whatever, that was the FIRST TIME I EVER EJACULATED. I didnt freeze up…it just came…and i dont what happens when you ejacluate, but you know its comming… whether its your first or 100th time.
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Okay, but I wasn’t talking about your biological responses. I meant your emotional responses, and those of your GF.
You say you’ve never masturbated. That implies (though of course it does not guarantee) that you’re not entirely comfortable with your sexuality. You say your parents and your GF’s parents don’t want you to be together, or at least not like this. That strongly implies that the risk of your getting caught kissing, let alone having genital intercourse, is such that the two of you would be tense and fearful during the act. It also implies that you haven’t had many opportunities to get to know each other physically. And yet somehow, you found enough time and privacy to get each others’ clothes off, and you got and sustained an erection long enough to penetrate her hymen (I assume she had her hymen?), and you continued the act all the way to orgasm? You never, at any point during this, stopped and wondered if you should be doing this? You even had a clear enough mind to remember to pull out and actually do so? This just doesn’t seem to jive with the claim of being from a Sex Is Bad religious background. Of course, I could be wrong.
I’m sorry to bring this back up, but sometimes in real life I will see something that reminds me of somebody on the Dope. For instance, if I see a ladle, then well, you know…
This morning I had to take a picture of this on my camera phone while pumping gas. unbrok3npp, you have joined the ranks because I instantly thought of you.
[QUOTE=Slacker]
And I assume you’ve experienced that feeling many times. Kozmik’s point is that if it was brokepp’s first time, which led to his question about how he knew it was about to happen. I would imagine most first time experiences are closer to what DesertDog posted.
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Yes, and even DesertDog’s description was ‘this feels good, now it’s even better, then Pow.’
I think the italicized part indicates the ‘about to come’ sensation the male sexual animal is familiar with. Even the neophyte knows something’s about to happen.
Sorry to Hijack your thread, unbrok3npp, but that’s how they seem to go, tangent city. Especially sex threads.
[QUOTE=bigbabysweets2000]
I’m sorry to bring this back up, but sometimes in real life I will see something that reminds me of somebody on the Dope. For instance, if I see a ladle, then well, you know…
This morning I had to take a picture of this on my camera phone while pumping gas. unbrok3npp, you have joined the ranks because I instantly thought of you.
[QUOTE=unbrok3npp]
OK, i know people are gonna give me all kinds of crap because im an uneducated, selfish, stupid, typical American teen, but nonetheless I have a sex-ed question.
So, when you are “sexually aroused” the first thing that comes out(the clear slimy stuff) inst semen?? Like I said, this was the FIRST time I had ever ejaculated (no, i never even masturbated)
I know I’m stupid, but hopefully the $15 I spent on this site will teach me something. And thanks to those who are actually trying to help…
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I think you are asking what pre-ejaculate is. Read that link (very short, pretty straightforward). Pre-ejaculate does not have a high chance for causing a pregnancy but the risk is not zero either. As someone mentioned if you get unlucky on a 1% chance the woman becomes 100% pregnant.
As for pregnancy tests the best info I have found is they start becoming somewhat reliable 7-14 days after sex. Could be earlier, could be later so do not think this is a 100% reliable method but if you are worried I would have her take a test a week after and again two weeks after. If she misses her period head to a doctor/clinic.
BTW…there is also a thing out there called the Morning-After Pill. This is used up to 72 hours after unprotected sex and is pretty effective at opreventing pregnancies. This should NOT be viewed as a form of birth control and is really meant for when you were dumb or the condom broke (it is essentially a heavy does of birth control medicine). You girlfriend needs to see a doctor for access to this. Again, not something you want to rely on but there in a pinch and DEFINITELY have her consult a doctor about it as you would with any medication.
And as for not masturbating…well…you’d either have to be really young or the first male ever to not do it. Perfectly fine and natural and healthy thing to do. Heck, if you lack protection so cannot have sex with your partner mutual-masturbation (sometimes called outer course or frottage) is not only a possibility can be quite fun as well. Just try to avoid getting overly randy and doing something stupid again .
Well, despite the sage notice given to you by the previous poster, congratulations. 90+% chance you’re out of the woods.
Careful where you point that thing in the future, cowboy.
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I have no idea of your age or location but I’m going to assume you are young enough that you can’t afford em and in a place where they are not freely distributed. You might be able to find a sexual health clinic which will provide free condoms - if not then you need to have sex without penetration or ejaculating near her vagina.
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I guess I don’t understand the argument about not being able to afford condoms. Are there places in the US where they are really expensive? The last time I bought them, it cost about $6 for a 12 pack. A quick search at Walgreens.com turned up a 3-pack for $3.49.
Good news! Remember what we talked about, and have her take one more test next week, just to be sure. And call family planning or hands off! (I’m happy it worked out for you both. )
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Good, but you should know that this does not mean you can be certain she isn’t pregnant.
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Really? I have heard of women who “got periods all during their pregnancy” as proof of how people can be unaware that they’re pregnant, but isn’t that just spotting? That is, you can’t really get a true period when you’re pregnant (since you’re shedding the uterine lining, what would happen to everything else in your uterus?).
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