Do I tell him his Fiancee to be used to make passes at me the entire time they were going out?
What do you mean exactly by “made passes at you”?
If you didn’t think it was important enough to mention while they were dating and getting serious, why is it suddenly an issue for you now?
Straight up booty call about 6 months ago.
Why its a concern? They broke up and got back together about 3 times. Then they broke up, thought for good, then just out of the blue announced they are engaged.
He’s a good friend, but i dont want to interfere. Maybe just disappear?
Was that in response to HazelNutCoffee or me? If you’re saying that you had a booty call with this person…well, I’m just going to assume that’s not what you meant, since you’re calling the guy a close friend of yours. So in what way was this girl hitting on you?
Because being cheated on during dating is worse than being cheated on during engagement/marriage.
Anything you say is going to shitting on the relationship, and to be frank the vibe I get is that you are really having a hard time keeping your mouth shut about this, to the point you are asking for opinions online.
If you tell them they will BOTH hate you, not just her. His response is NOT going to be “Thanks bro, you helped me dodge that bullet!” regardless of how it’s playing out in your imagination.
They will both despise you, and hate you with the fire of 10,000 suns. If that’s really what you want go for it.
So you’re saying that she unambiguously proposed a one-night stand with you in the past?
I would try to talk to my friend and figure out why they’ve suddenly decided to get engaged after having broken up several times in the past before I opened my mouth.
Mods, delete this please. Im drunk. Homie, I hope the best for you but I fear she will break your heart. I’ll always be there for you.
I wouldn’t tell my friend what went on (that’s up to his girlfriend to do, if she thinks it’s pertinent - booty calls while you’re broken up aren’t really relationship issues), but I would make myself scarce from their lives. I would never, ever be alone with her again - your history probably will come out some day (or she’ll hit on some other friends), and I just wouldn’t want to be any part of the possible drama.
You can be friends with him again in two years when the marriage is over. 
Did she suggest a booty call or did you actually fuck her? If you actually fucked her you should follow Cat’s advice. Have fun when she spills the beans during their next fight.
If you really care about his welfare, tell him exactly what happened. Does he own much property?
Nobody ever benefits from getting involved in someone else’s marriage. If she really is bad, there are probably plenty of other red flags that he has chosen to ignore just like he’ll ignore anything you tell him. This is something he is going to have to figure out on his own, probably the hard way. Love makes you stupid.
You can say that again. If the guy hasn’t figured out that it just wasn’t meant to be after breaking up with her 3-4 times already, then what is it going to take?
I’d wager there is an excellent chance that they will have yet another breakup before the wedding anyway, so maybe that’ll solve the problem.
Which Homie do you mean?
HeyHomie or Bonhomie or compton_homie?
The time to bring it up was when it happened.
Another vote for keep your mouth shut, and NEVER be alone with her again.
Sounds like someone may be attempting to drown their sorrows. Secret crush perhaps? On her I mean.
Sure. You probably have too many friends anyway. :rolleyes:
If their relationship is that volatile, they probably won’t make it to the aisle anyway.