Well, that made it worth reading to page 4.
Shakes… please tell us. What have you learned from this experience?
0WNED!
I did warn you this might happen. Think about what Wordman said. Who knows? The next time you ask a nerd girl out or the next time you ask this nerd girl out, she might say yes, if you choose to learn from this. It’s up to you, not us.
CJ
Why would we be happy? We felt you two weren’t suited for each other, that’s all. When you post for advice, you will get it. When you come off as a jerk, you’ll get it right back atcha. That’s what got our collective panties in a bunch, your attitude.
Did she say why she turned you down? Just curious.
Oh, and thanks for being brave enough to confess that she turned you down. You could’ve never said anything, or you could’ve lied, and we never would’ve known. There’s hope for you yet. 
I was secretly hoping you’d ask her out, she’d say yes, and you’d soon find yourself madly in love with her.
Am I the only one who thinks this story is bogus? Shakes has been here a while. He knows by now what kinds of things to say to piss off Dopers. I for one, do my best to resist when the little devil on my shoulder tells me to make a big long post about how awesome Nickelback is!
I find it hard to believe he would have admitted nerdgirl told him to get lost, unless it was to mollify all this heat he’s been getting.
No good deed goes unpunished?
I’m kidding! I’m kidding!
Seriously, think I’ll stick with the bar-flies untill I learn to change my Asshole ways.
Or, Its not good to feel sorry for women.
[shrugs] I don’t know, I’m sure I’m still somehow missing the whole moral of the story.
DeadlyAccurate, she just told me she has other stuff she needs to do.
** WorldMan** Not really sure I WANT to change my attitude (especially towards women). I really used to be a nice guy. (by anyones standards) But after a failed marriage and getting screwed a bunch of other ways by being the classic “nice guy” I’ve slowly morphed into an asshole. Its cool though, because I’ve found being an asshole is A LOT more rewarding than being a nice guy.
At the risk of sounding ambivalent, I still try to do good from time to time though. Except I’ve been a prick for so long now, that apparently the line is starting to get a little blured between doing a good thing and doing an asshole thing. This thread is proof positive of that.
Kind of scary actually.
For the life of me I really did think I was doing something good here. (wow)
The moral of the story is that if you have to have someone convince you why you should go out with someone. then you probably didn’t really want to go out with them after all.
Now run along, young Luke. A Jedi cares not for such things.
This is not the nerd you are looking for.
I am
Oh, go ahead and date NerdGirl. Break her heart. You know what? She’ll emerge a stronger NerdGirl.
It took me about 10 years of pity dates before I decided not to date anyone ever again. And I was happy. I was alone for three years but I was OK with it. And one day, when Mr. MercyStreet came a-courtin’, I knew he was everything I had been looking for. He picked me up, dusted me off, and said, “Hey! Slightly damaged! But still a good bargain!”
I ought to go back and thank all the jerks.
Is it just me, or did threads about this phenomenon run rampant about 6 months ago? Then, one day, they just came to a grinding halt.
SHAKES has been married & divorced by the age of 16? I guess he only acts 16.
The Golden Rule-how would you like to be on the receiving end of whatever action you’re considering?
Would you have appreciated it if NerdGirl had started a thread on a message board called “Convince me to give Pathetic Guy a chance,” that went on to say that you’d had bad luck with women and now limit yourself to drunken barflies. Should she throw you a bone and ask you out just so you’ll have a chance to spend time with someone who isn’t falling over from her tenth choclatini? Would a guy like you be any fun at all? What kinds of things would like to do?
Nerd Girls are awesome.
And way out of your league Shakes. Trust me, taking her out won’t be doing her any favors.
2 hours for items on reserve. See you in 121 minutes, you naughty boy…
<Lightly slaps paddle absent-midedly against thigh…>
Abso-freakin-lutely. Guys who like being around books? HOT. Guys who wear glasses who like being around books? UMMMMMM…THINKING OF MOVING TO L.A. ANYTIME SOON?!
Shakes, I can’t believe after 4 pages you still don’t get it. I keep thinking about this thread and why the OP leaves such a bad taste in my mouth. So I will join many others and try to explain again the error of your ways.
It’s the way you assume yourself to be SUCH a great catch that your presence will infinitely brighten the world of this lesser being you “feel sorry for”. What makes going out with YOU such a wonderful experience?
I’m extremely shy- if I’m talking and more than 2 people are listening, my face turns red. Often, if I’m speaking to an attractive stranger, my face will turn red, but it definitely doesn’t mean that I want to date him. It’s not that I lack self-esteem, believe me I don’t, and it’s not anything I’m thinking about. It just happens; I try to ignore it and move on.
In summary, what pisses ME off personally about your OP is that you seem to see yourself as a better PERSON than this girl and you seem to think that the gift of a date with you would go in her scrapbook and be a story to tell her grandchildren about. I hardly think that a date with you would be all THAT exciting.
Glasses. Check. Likes books. Check. Move to LA? I could! 
I can’t imagine dating any kind of girl OTHER than Nerd Girls. Do us a favor, spare her for those who would appreciate her.