i’ve been seeing this guy for about 6 months, and for most of that time, things have been rather good. but it’s starting to get a little weird for me, and i’m not sure if i’m imagining it or not.
we’re spending less time together. the other night he wanted to go dutch for a meal, which seemed really odd (up until now we’ve just been going back and forth on picking up the tab…) sex is a little less frequent. on the other hand, he initiated a conversation about moving in together not too long ago, so… who the #($* knows?
anyway, i’ve been going through some crazy family drama and i’ve probably been mopier than usual. my dad is having health issues and i was just kind of venting and said, “man, what am i going to do if my dad dies?” his response was, “well, you know, everyone dies.” of course he’s right, but doesn’t that seem awfully glib? the cold hard truth is not always appropriate; how about, you know, a hug?
of course i asked him if things were cool between us and he said, “yes, why wouldn’t they be?” so there’s no help there… anyway, i guess it could just be that initial infatuation just turning into a regular ol’ relationship, but i’m not sure and i guess i just needed to vent. thanks for letting me.