dealing with SOs sexual issues (fake Os etc)?

Damn, I’d definitely agree your sex life has issues. Especially if this is the same woman you describe in this “bring up inconsistencies”* thread two weeks ago, i.e. the one whom you were seeing back in August. Back then you said you thought she was probably having an affair, what lying about her incredibly active social life, dressing kinda skanky (what with those painted-on clothes and breasts practically falling out of her top), the fact that she wouldn’t tell you anything about her past, and especially that was spending nights out. As you said,

Eventually you even broke up with her.

Since in that thread you mentioned that you were disappointed one couldn’t expect monogamy in this day and age, it’s surprising to learn that you yourself were apparently seeing two women, one of whom was sexually promiscuous and addicted to social media (perhaps to be expected since she was five years your junior), whereas this woman is apparently withholding, prim, traumatized and anorgasmic.

My suggestion is to find a happy medium between these two partners of yours, or if this is the same woman, then you need to find someone who isn’t so much of a Sybil. At least find someone consistent.

  • Irony alert!