As for me, 41 and female, I do find the dirty talk appealing up to a point. The thing with talking dirty is that it’s so easy to say something stupid or offensive or just outright weird. Remember that Seinfeld where Jerry was seeing a girl who was into dirty talk and he was weirded out but really tried to get into it, but then he asked her if she was wearing the panties her mother put out for her, and she freaked out? It’s that easy! But done in the right way by the right person, it can definitely be sexy.
I’m not a sexy talker- I’m too self-conscious and would undoubtedly come up with something that could deflate even the hardest boner, would have us both laughing, and/or would have him running for the door whilst putting his pants on. I am strictly a listener.
You? Are you a dirty talker and listener, and just one or the other, or none? Are you male or female, and older or younger?