Poll in a moment. The results will be private, I think.
No, but it took a lot of destructive, hateful work on her part to kill that love.
I knew you’d be an early responder.
So did you stop loving her BEFORE or AFTER the divorce?
I barely remember my first husband. Twenty-four very long years have passed. We’re FB friends but rarely say anything to each other. I hold no animosity towards him or anything like that. We just really don’t have anything in common.
My second husband hates me because I dumped him but I don’t hate him. I don’t love him though.
Yes and yes…one on each end of the extreme.
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People who start polls should be required to reveal their own answer to the question posed, I think!
Two ex spouses, hate 'em both.
Pizza?
It’s not a public poll, so I can’t agree.
Anyway, I have only been married once, and I am still happily married to that woman, so I cannot give a meaningful answer (apart from the wisecracks at the end).
I’m perfectly willing to provide you with free teleport pad service, Mika, but it’s still up to you to turn the damn thing on.
Given that it was a rather painful 8 month long divorce process…
I was about to say that it died in the first 4 bloody months of that process, but that would be wrong. It wouldn’t have hurt me so much and left such lasting injuries if I hadn’t still loved her.
I love my ex, in a friend/family member way. He’s a great guy and we raised a child together. We were just always better suited to be friends.
- bangs machine *
The repairman says 2016. 
Woo hoo! I found a piece of pizza on my doorstep.
Did you show him your “I am on the Short List, and thus anyone who fails to provide me with preferential service will naturally be dropped into a pit of vipers” card?
My heart is still soft for the guy I married, but the liar that I asked to move out managed to make him disappear.
It took me a completely unreasonable amount of time to arrive at the conclusion that I had no business loving her (romantically) in the first place, but the events leading up to the divorce killed that love dead in a couple of months. I don’t feel any trace of that.
Nope. Shifted from love to hate pretty quickly. Still waiting on indifferent, but he becomes less relevant all the time so I can see it getting closer.
I still love her but there is no, no, no, no way in Hell that I’d ever want to live with her again.
I still and always will love my ex but have no desire to see him again. The relationship was very bad for both of us. We’ve only seen each other in person once in the last 15 years.
Unfortunately, my wife has threatened divorce if she came home and I smelled of mystery pizza, so I must pass.