For the most part, pickup artists are not looking for love, but shags.
If you are in a large city with a good number of bars, it’s not that difficult to find a fair number of people who will have sex (and bonus points if they have sex with you. )
I play with my hair all the time no matter what the situation so that would be a poor indicator of interest from me. If I am interested in a guy I give him a sideways glance or two. If I give him a sideways glance and bite my lower lip it is because I am more than a little interested (IOW I want to bang him.)