The next time you talk with her inform her that you really really appreciated the space she took because it gave you a lot of time to get some things done. Cuz she playing that game with you & you can play it better.
I agree with Swiddles and Daniel. Let her be. The thing she wants most is for you to be her “Are you OK?” stalker, thus enhancing the drama in her life. Do the email saying that you’ll be there when she is ready to talk, and then don’t contact her again. If she wants the games to continue, she’ll contact you. If she really doesn’t want to see you, you won’t hear from her.
If it really is pregnancy or a STD, she may not want to drag you into her problems. Let her deal with them on her own.
Good luck, and I wish you the strength to not contact her. (It’s hard, I know.)
I know it’s hard, but you have to look at it sensibly. Either she’s playing games, or she’s not. If she is, you’re better of letting her go. If she’s not, then it’s a legitimate request for space. Either way, I’d honor it. You’ll probably be saving yourself some grief in the long run.
Ah, I know what it may be. She probably read a book, its called THE RULES. Its pretty short. Its written by a couple women who explain how women should act to get a man. It’s one of the most stupid books for this I have ever read part of.
Have a look at it…