A lot I think. The OP seems to be a timid character who’s been putting up with her own uncomfortable situation for quite a while so the fact that she did anything is a huge step forward. It’s not hard to guess the wifes reaction - if you have to stand up for yourself, obviously someone is not going to like it and that’s why it perpetuates.
Yeah, you can bet the husband didn’t count on the OP having the guts to talk to his wife. Ug, I know a couple just like this, and it makes my skin crawl. As with so many of these things, it is often just so much easier to do nothing – and that’s how these creeps get away with it – so good for the OP for resisting, eventually.
That completely stinks - although there is a glimmer of good news. She’s taking what you said seriously. I’m not sure what this means for the inevitable outcome, but you’ve done all you can.
The child’s family - She would basically be a stranger calling them out of the blue. There is no way in any universe that this would go well - if the OP even had a way to contact them in the first place.
I think the OP did a good job - she worked with the contacts she had.
You are being unreasonable in your expectations here.
If a stranger called me out of the blue and told me, “listen, you know how your daughter doesn’t like to get hugged by Uncle Feely? I just thought I should let you know that I have had issues with him touching me inappropriately. I’m really sorry I have to get in family business by telling you that, but I felt it was the right thing to do” I would totally appreciate that call. At least it gives me an opportunity to ask my daughter about it. And I think it would take a tremendous amount of courage for someone to make that call.
No he isn’t, if there was any possibility this bloke was molesting that girl then anyone aware of it should be moving heaven and earth to let the relatives know.
But as there obviously isn’t (LEARN TO READ BETWEEN THE LINES FOLKS. YOU’RE ALL ADULTS, RIGHT?), meh, who cares.