Hi guys!
On TV shows, people are often dropping by to visit friends and family. They don’t phone before going – they just drop by.
I realize that the “drop by” on TV shows can be a device that allows for unexpected plot twists that couldn’t happen if someone phoned first. But do people do this in real life? I don’t know anybody does, but I’m sure that there are individual and cultural differences.
If someone visits me without first calling, there’s more than just a slight chance that I won’t be home. I could be doing one of thousands of activities that I (and many other people) do away from their home.
Do the visitors treat the outing as a Plan A/B event: If they are home, that’s fine; if not, we’ll do something else? Is the *drop by * more likely in smaller towns where the trip is short, and where people might have a better idea of other people’s habits? Is it a given that friends and family drop by on special occasions and holidays? If you drop by to visit and the people are not at home, what do you do?
Also, a slight different point: Sometimes on a TV show, a person arrives at home and is met by a friend or family member who has been waiting outside, possibly for hours. Seems strange to me. Does this type of thing actually happen?
Anyway, just wondering.