I’m a boy, and it usually doesn’t bother me at all. Ever since our kids were born, I wake up several times a night anyway, and I have no problem getting back to sleep. In fact, since I’m a boy, I certainly have no problem falling asleep after sex 
My only caveat is that she wake me gently by rubbing or nuzzling, or the like, and not, for instance, whack the back of my head and yell “service me!” Well, actually that’s OK too.
I don’t mind at all. I think it’s a great thing to wake up to, and a great thing to fall asleep after. Also, I’m often the guilty party doing the waking up. My husband doesn’t seem to mind.
Nope, I don’t mind it one bit. I have told my wife she doesn’t have to even wake me up, as I have had sex a few times while still sleeping.
If this ever happens to me, I’ll let you know.
somehow I can’t see even Pepper Mill, who loves and lusts after me, suddenly waking up in the middle of the night and saying, “Cal, I need sex! Now!” Although it would be an interesting experience.
I’m in the “wake-me-up-and-die” camp. I have trouble sleeping as it is, and my boyfriend knows this. If he wrecked my sleep, he would not only not get sex, but he would get my frostiest possible glare. 
A few times I’ve had the urge to wake him up for it, but knowing he has to get up early to work, I wouldn’t ruin his sleep.
(Admittedly, maybe I would feel differently if I didn’t work backshift 9 pm to 9 am. It’s hard getting to sleep after that, and getting enough sleep to be able to get up for work again that night!)
I know of no man who would turn down sex for sleep unless he’s having an affair or he’s tired of your shit in general.
One of us waking up the other for sex happens pretty regularly.
I live in a “sleep is sacred” house. My husband is an insomniac and if I woke him up for sex he’d never forgive me. He’d also never get back to sleep. I’m the one that falls asleep right after sex, not him.
I don’t know how I’d react because it’s never happened. Maybe I’d like it.
It probably would irk me if I were in prison, but I can’t think of many other scenarios where I’d mind.
Roger that.
Or he’s a medical resident.
Neither of us sleeps very well, so we tend not to, but I wouldn’t necessarily mind.
Mind? No, no, that’s not the word I’m looking for. Let’s see. Hmmmm. Oh, yes. “encourage.” Yes, that’s it.
I used to love it…seemed like an evidence of subconsious desire? Or just acceptance that it doesn’t always have to be proof of come cuddly sweet teddy bear emotion.
But when that was the only time he seems interested…i have to say no way.
Well now oyu know one man. And it’s not for lack of love of sex, far from it. Any one of my ex-girldfriends can tell you that I have a very high sex drive (and all but one will tell you it’s too high.) But if there’s oen thign I don’t like, it’s waking up. I am groggy when I wake up, irritable, and for the first few minutes, still half aslep and generally have “half-dreams”, and have very little memory of those first few minutes. I know that even were I to have sex, it would be bad sex, cause I wouldn’t be in my groove.
Of course, this has only happened once in my entire life (probably because I only had one GF that had as high a sex drive as me, and we were so tired after our nightly romp that we couldn’t wake up in them iddle of then ight to have sex if we watned to. 
) But that one time it was around 4 AM, I went to bed at about 1, and my GF was a I thought she was going to crash there, so I locked my door. Well, come 4 AM there’s al oud knock, and I had to get up, stumble to the door, and open it up for my quite drunk GF, who was being very frisky. But, being still half asleep, and wanting to regain that lost half, I mumbled “too tired” and crawled back into bed.
Wake me up before you go go…
Or something like that. No, I don’t mind.
I hate it. I feel like I’m being used as a warm masturbation tool.
It’s been hard finding time for lovin’ since my baby was born nine month ago, so I’ve been encouraged to wake Mig up for sex, but often he won’t wake up, then gets upset in the morning, claiming I never tried!
I hate it. I don’t like to be woken up for anything. And just after I’ve woken up in the morning I don’t want to be bothered for a while, either. I think it takes a while for my body to wake up.
Ah…finally a thread comes about that gives me an excuse to share my sob story on the internet.
My wife has always encouraged me to go ahead and wake her up if the mood strikes me, and one night as we were going to bed, she was too tired to participate, but she promised me that if I woke her up whenever I woke up in the morning, it would be on.
So 6:30am rolls around on a Saturday morning (yes, I’m a morning person – it’s not like she didn’t know this ahead of time), I open my eyes and gleefully recall the promise of the prior night. I roll over and gently begin caressing my lover’s arm. She stirs slightly, moans – no luck. So I continue the caresses and add a few kisses for effect.
My wife’s eyes open slightly as she turns to look at me, and the briefest glimmer of understanding flashes across her face as she says:
and then promptly rolls over and goes back to sleep.
To this day, I’ve never been able to figure which one of us should be more embarrased by that story. But most of my friends sympathize with HER because they don’t understand how I could possibly think anyone would care about sex at 6:30 in the morning.
Somebody back me up here! She promised!!
Unless the house is on fire, DO NOT wake me up. My kitty has even been banned from my bedroom because she cannot make it through the entire night without walking up to me and going MEEEEEOW. So no kitty. The SO would probably meet with a similar fate if he woke me up.
I certainly have no problem with it. However, I disagree with the “if hes too tired, hes having an affair” line.
Sometimes we can genuinely be too tired!
What, women are the only ones who can use the “I’m tired” and “I have a headache” lines? 