NSFW Poll: being woken up by one's partner ... going down on one

In My Humble Opinion
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Semi-circumspect thread title, for a non circumspect subject. Work readers proceed at your own discretion.

Without going into too much detail, let’s just say that this has been the topic of some discussion between me and the woman I’ve been seeing. One of us has been awoken, more than once, by the other of us performing oral ministrations on the formerly sleeping bedmate. This has been an enjoyable surprise for the sleeper, and leads rapidly to further sweaty frolic. It hasn’t been reciprocated yet, because in reverse, the recipient is a much lighter sleeper, and the movements of the performer getting into position, so to speak, cause the sleeper to wake suddenly.

Sample dialogue, after one such energetic morning, summarized and paraphrased: You find this sexy? Me: Yes, very much. Her: Why? Me: Not sure exactly, but you obviously appreciate it as well. Her: Do other people like it? Me: I don’t know about everybody, because not everybody enjoys everything, but I would expect that more people like it than don’t.

Hence, this poll.

I don’t have particular questions in mind, and I’m hoping for a wide-ranging discussion, but just to get things rolling:

Do you enjoy being woken up with oral servicing? If no, is it because it just doesn’t do anything for you, or because you find it creepy and violating? (And does it make a difference who your partner is?) If yes, do you think it’s just okay, pretty much the same as any other oral sex, or is it hot-diggity-dog fantastic, better than normal oral sex? Can you even pin down what’s sexy about it?

The other way around, do you enjoy waking up your partner this way? Do you know in advance that he/she is receptive, via dialogue beforehand, or did you just give it a try to see how it worked out? Ever had it backfire or go badly, per the second of the “no” options in the preceding paragraph?

(Your gender and sexual preference are probably useful information, though not necessarily required. For the record, I’m a straight dude.)

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As a boy who likes girls and the oral ministrations thereof, I like it, i like it a lot. As far as the other way round, well, that’s complicated.

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Man = +1

Woman = Price of Tea in China + Color of Wallpaper / Comment by Coworker - Kids being PITA

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Straight male. Speaking hypothetically, I think I would enjoy this.

In 25 years of sexual activity, I’ve never to my recollection actually experienced it.

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Straight male. In 54 years of sexual activity, this has never happened to me nor have I ever turned the tables, so to speak. Frankly, it has never occurred to me to awaken my partner in this way. I’ve been unimaginative all my life.

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Well, he’s a heavy enough sleeper that such activities on their own wouldn’t wake him. A kiss on the cheek and he startles awake. A kiss…elsewhere…doesn’t get much of a reaction at all. Or so I’ve found.

It’s only happened the once, so I can’t say how I’d feel about it, though I wouldn’t mind finding out :wink: But he had alluded to it once before, saying he’d like it, so I did :o

(straight female)

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Straight dude.

Like being the recipient. A lot.

Unfortunately, although I have declared myself a bedroom ninja, beds and female underthings do not seem to have gotten the memo, and I have yet to successfully pull off the oral alarm clock.

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I like it until the morning pee hardon takes over. Then it’s a little incomfortable.

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Put her to bed nekkie.

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Ah yes, happened to me once, in my girlfriend’s dorm room. Quite fun, and led to a nice long day of play. Oh how I long for those days again!

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I don’t think it’d do anything for me but, then, neither does oral when I’m fully conscious.

Bi-ish male.

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Straight boy.
Do you enjoy being woken up with oral servicing? Sounds good to me
**If yes, do you think it’s just okay, pretty much the same as any other oral sex, or is it hot-diggity-dog fantastic, better than normal oral sex?**Better
Can you even pin down what’s sexy about it? She knows I like it, it’s playful and she’s interested in giving me a treat. What’s not hot about that?
And does it make a difference who your partner is? Yes. I would be terrified to fund my dick in my ex-wife’s mouth.
**…do you enjoy waking up your partner this way?**I’d be willing to, but haven’t tried it yet. Pretty sure she’d go for it.
Ever had it backfire… ahem

Actually, when I was married to Mrs. Montoya, I had thought it would be nice if she would wake me up like that. But it didn’t seem right to just up and say, “Hey it would be cool if you woke me up with a blowjob sometime.” so I decided I’d have to be subtle about it. I’d have to maybe give her a demonstration and she’d get the idea. So one morning, while she lay sleeping, I got into position and went to work. … She nearly choked.

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It’s never happened to me, and my wife sleeps too lightly to even begin the process before she’d wake anyway. We also both like to be bathed before the festivities begin. So… a nice pipedream, and nothing I’d object to, but probably not on the horizon.

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Straight female, I don’t I think would like it at all from my husband. I sleep very deeply and usually wake up disoriented, plus I usually have to urinate almost immediately upon waking. So I’d either wake up thinking I was being sexually assaulted, or like I had no idea wtf that feeling was, or knowing that I had to urinate Right Now. None of those are exactly sexy.

My husband wakes poorly too; he tends to startle awake with a major jerk and gasp at any unusual, notable stimulus (sound, certain touch, etc.) and that is also not really sexy.

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Gay male - haven’t woken up with it being done to me but I have woken up someone else doing it. It’s way fun. :slight_smile:

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Straight guy.
I’ve had it performed on me a few times, but it just doesn’t work - my morning hard-ons somehow aren’t “regular” ones, I don’t feel a thing.
I tried doing it to girls twice. The first hadn’t woken up after a good 20 minutes’ work, by which time I called it a day. Second time (different girl), she kneed me in jaw by reflex (making me bite my tongue), then woke up startled *and *pissed off at me for having woken her up. There was no third, nor will there ever be until I bed a morning person.

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I certainly like, up until the point it starts being referred to as “ministrations” and “servicing”.

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Gay male here. I love to do it to my partner (love to, as in whenever I get a chance); I hate to receive it. It’s uncomfortable, I always need to use the bathroom immediately after I wake and I don’t feel sexy or clean. Strangely, this doesn’t bother me one bit of my partner.

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Funny this thread should appear today- I was just woken up this way this morning. She does it every now and then and I love it, although usually have to take a break before too long to go pee. It’s hard to do it to her though, because of the way she sleeps, in order to get her into a position where I could do it, she’d wake up, so I usually start with my hand on her then move down once she changes position.

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You are a genius!

“Gotta pee”-problem people, the trick is to do it in the middle of the night after they doze off rather than in the morning.