How much of your manhood and self worth do you tie into success with the ladies?
As I continue to answer damn Internet personal ads without much success (I have one possible date next weekend) I’ve been struggling with this question. Actually I’ve been basically trying to deal with it my entire life but now as I’ve really been hitting the singles sites it’s come into the forefront of my mind.
Actually, I know that self worth shouldn’t be tied into success in meeting ladies. It should come from how kind we are to others as we pass through life. I’m always kind to other people in the RW and I perform volunteer work with the homeless twice a week so honestly I know I’m worthwhile. Shit I knew it before I began the volunteer work.
Sometimes this just doesn’t make a damn bit of difference though as I struggle with loneliness. I often feel like such a worthless, loser as my lifetime failure with women continues. I’m a good writer so if there’s anyway for me to start meeting women it should be through these Internet singles sites but it’s not really happening… As this continues I feel weak, like half a man, because women don’t want me.
I see men with three girlfriends who can pick up more women whenever they want. Shit and half of these guys are slick, lying bastards but they happen to be handsome and have a good line of bullshit so the ladies want them… They have to be better men than me. Right?
I wonder if ladies who can’t find a man deal with the same type of self esteem issues?