Sorry, I meant to say “had NOT experienced…”
Oh okay … my bad … excuse me … but did she say the baby was actually IN the stroller … I mean if you want to get all technical and such.
And there’s no need for you to get ugly you know … unless you just can’t help it … caused by some sort of post-partum disorder you’ve got going on there??? Try some Paxil … I hear it does wonders for new mom’s and their mood swings.
So…will you pay to post? 
Yeah just what I would expect to hear … you should put that on a shirt … “It’s a MOM thing you wouldn’t understand” … all I can say is THANKFULLY …
Thank you for your insight and rational explaination of the love that you have for your child … I think I can pretty much write off any comments from a person who would just feel SORRY for their sibling with an illness … I would hope that COMPASSION and EMPATHY would come into play in there some place … but as I said … just what I would expect …
Pay to post??? Pay to post here?
Fuck you. Fuuuuuuuuuuck you. Oh yes, and the horse you rode in on.
Did I mention you can fuck off? And then fuck off again? Ah yes, and don’t forget to fuck the fuck off when you are done with that.
When you’re done fucking off, I suggest you (a) don’t bother sharing your little I-Read-It-In-The-Enquirer epertise about postpartum disorders with us, and (b) don’t blithely prescribe controlled substances as a fix. Goddamn, I’ll accept with a lot of “I don’t have kids, but I think I get thow you feel” empathy. There are plenty of intelligent Dopers on here whom I have absolute confidence when it comes to putting themselves in the shoes of other. I will not cheerfully stand for some idiot with a username like yours professing to have anything at all construtive to add about a new mother’s feelings, their relationship to postpartum blues, depression, and hormone swings, and the best way to treat them.
Oh, before you go, please take this Hale’s guide and shove it up your ass sideways. Don’t know what Hale’s is? But of course you do! You’re prescribing drugs to new moms, you know it well!
Have a nice Fuck Off on me!
ImChildFREE, you obviously don’t understand why it is that new parents turn suddenly into sappy idiotic morons, so maybe it is time to consider that you don’t know all there is to know about having children.
One question: how does feeling sorry demonstrate a lack of compassion/empathy? I always thought they were kind of similiar…
**Bite me.
Yes, dumbass, I feel empathy and compassion. I was posting quickly, trying to get it in. I’m sorry it had to happen, how’s that? I’m sorry she has to give herself an injection every day. I’m sorry she lives in a third-floor apartment with no elevator.
Well, I was going to say that ImChildFREE’s comment was “totally uncalled for,” but Cranky said what I was really feeling.
What is WRONG with my name? Just as truthful as yours is it not. I am ChildFREE … Just like if someone came on with the user name ImaBlonde … would you be so defensive???
What do you know about me and whether or not I know about PPD … Paxil … or the hormone swings of a woman …
and I don’t have a Hale’s guide to shove anywhere but thanks for the offer grins
Your foul language and bad attitudes toward anyone who doesn’t share your precious opinions was just what I expected. You allowed someone you don’t know to rile you up beyond even my wildest expectations and in record time … thanks so much … now seeing that I won the bet with my hubby that some of you would go off at one or more facets of my posts … I am off to a nice quiet CHILDFREE lunch on him … may even have dessert too since someone even took offense at my user name … hee hee
And by the way … you may think that I am an idiot … but who was it that allowed themselves to get worked up by an idiot evil grins … uh … um … wasn’t me. So what does that make you all … GULLIBLE would be my guess.
I am convinced that if you really knew much about PPD, motherhood, and the emotions of new mothers, you wouldn’t have ever made such an offhand comment to a new whom you you perceived to be overly cranky or protective. Utterly inappropriate on a number of levels. Not only is it insensitive, I also think it stigmatizes what I think is a totally normal reaction on the part of BubbleGirl. I also think it makes light of a very real and serious phenomenon. For all those reasons, your comment made me want to shove my Medela breast pump up your ass.
Your name is only offensive to me in the context of your throwing out suggestions for new moms. I don’t care if you’re childfree and happy and about it. That’s super–I know many others like you and the sentiment itself is utterly understandable. However, your close identification with it (so much so that it’s your username on board that is not about parenting) at a time when “childfree” is becoming a political movement, AND (much more importantly) your posting flippant comments to a pit thread started by a new mom… well, I shouldn’t have to explain this.
Thanks for the laugh
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*Originally posted by ImChildFREE *
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Get ugly ? Honey that was far from me getting ugly. If I wanted to get ugly with you there would be smoke rising from your ass due to the flames.
I think it was damn ugly of you to say ** "I think I can pretty much write off any comments from a person who would just feel SORRY for their sibling with an illness … I would hope that COMPASSION and EMPATHY would come into play in there some place … but as I said … just what I would expect … ** to Kinsey
I loved the new mom comment, yes I’m a new mom I have a beautiful baby that I take to DopeFests in Pubs with me. I throw her to other people, let waitress’ take her off to show her to the manager, cook or whoever else they want to show her to. She has been given cigarettes, beer, iced tea and knives as props when her picture was taken. She doesn’t mind and I don’t mind because she’s a doll.
I do have a child, a real child. He will be 21 in a few days. I can tell you I would have gone off on anyone who I didn’t know that walked up and touched him when he was a baby,
CrankyAsAnOldMan, thank you for saving me the time to tell this ummm, person to fuck off.
::walks away laughing:: She thinks I got ugly with her ! Wonder how long she has lurked in the pit ?
Um… has ImChildFREE just admitted to being a troll?
Enjoy that dessert. And go on believing that I am legitimately upset and I’ve called up all my Mommie friends and we’re going to burn you in effigy tonight because you’re just that important to me.
Sometimes people (read: me) just enjoy going off on people who seemingly have no perspective, no restraint, and nothing useful to add besides evidence that they are utterly full of themselves. It feels damn good to say fuck since there are so few people on these boards who are ever clueless enough to waste the word on. BUT–If you want to pat yourself on the back for being an amusing, powerful person who has Riled Up The Boards Like They’ve Never Been Riled Up Before, Just As You Predicted When You Signed Up, well, go right on ahead. If you think I’ll be lying awake tonight seething over you, go ahead and believe that too.
Ooops, sorry about that yawn, there. I’m trying hard to not look bored and instead look self-righteous and insulted and mad. I’d hate to ruin that Extra Special Lunch you’re going to have with your husband, talking about all of us that whooooooole time. Talk extra loud so the waiter and the booth next to you can also hear how cool you are, how your derring-do really riled up them there mesage board punks. Woo-hooo!
To quote someone elsewhere on this board… “reading comprehension is your friend”
She left the kid IN HER STROLLER. She changed the kid IN HER STROLLER. She said she wouldn’t put her baby on the changing table period, let alone leave her there.
Quick! Let’s all get our kids and go sit at the next table!
We can let our kids run wild and scream and yell and throw food and straw wrappers and sugar packets at them. Maybe she’ll come back and start a thread about obnoxious parents in restaurants.
“How dare they take their kids out in public?!”
DNFTT
Wow, at first I was gonna give you the benefit of the doubt that maybe you just made one stupid comment… but now it’s pretty obvious that you are, indeed, stupid.
Since when does feeling sorry for someone completely exclusive of other emotions like compassion and empathy? You may be amazed to know that one can feel all of those at the very same time ! Also, if someone were to list all the emotions they felt for their sister, I imagine the post would take up most of a page.
Oh, and for your remark to someone about “getting ugly”… if that isn’t the pot calling the kettle black I don’t know what is!