You’re most welcome. That was the whole point of starting this thread, to dispel a little ignorance (and some of my own) and see what all sides thought. It’s definitely been enlightening.
And yes, I’m certainly one of those folks who believe it’s absolutely necessary to learn from our mistakes or we are doomed to repeat them. I so wish I could undo all the hurt, but the best I’m hoping for now is that everyone can move past it and have as fulfilling a life as they can (even Ted). And thanks for the best wishes. Today’s not shaping up so well, so I could do with as many as I can get.