Putting this here because it’s a more tame forum…
I’ve posted before about my relationship with Danny - an unusual one. It’s still going on, but it’s not going anywhere, and we both know that. We just enjoy our time together.
However, after he last left my place, I started thinking about our initial relationship. There was chemistry, as it were, but he developed feelings for me that I did not reciprocate. I had to dump him, finally, and it was hard for both of us. (I hate dumping guys.)
Suddenly I realized I had been in Danny’s position with a guy I went out with last winter. I was the one who developed emotions, and I was the one who was eventually dumped.
It’s only now, ten months later, that I can understand the position this new guy was in, only because I realized I’ve been in the same place before. It really sucks when you want to be with someone but can’t give him what he wants or needs, so you have to cut it off.
Bah. I’ll still see Danny, but we both know it’s not going anywhere. He’s been very forthright that he’s seeing another guy. I can deal with that, because I have no emotional investment in our being together. It would never work, even if he were devoted to me (as he once was). I just enjoy the companionship and the intimacy… and the hot sex. But he’s still kind of stupid.
Just needed to get that off my chest. And if you’re reading this, you, I get it now. No worries.
I actually prefer this to bitter breakups.
Until the real Mr. scott evil comes along, what more can I do?