Yeah, supporting BDSM on the SDMB! What’s wrong with you?
Somebody’s going to get confused.
Human beings gross me out, too.
Nor will you. I will continue to weasel around it, thank you.
EC, I apologize for calling you creepy. We often agree on other things, and I appreciate how you have made an effort to no longer beat us over the head with your sick, disgusting, and inhuman predilections. (That’s a joke, son.)
They don’t want to get tied down with a relationship.
Apropos of nothing, EC had a song about ED.
Few of them pit the movies afterward for being horrible though.
So is there a flavour of BDSM porn where the person who starts out as the dom ends up being the sub? If there is, you should try to find some, dropzone. You might like it. Or at least find it familiar.
Due to them? No.
Due to posting about them incessantly in spite of having been asked to knock it the fuck off? Yes.
No thanks. I get enough here. However, it shows that I’m educable, unlike some people (f’rinstance, fxmastermind) here.
dropzone, don’t you think you’re being rather…strict?
And…would you do it again? :D:p
Exactly.
And like I tell my three-year old when her friends won’t play what she wants, “You can play somewhere else, but don’t spoil everyone else’s fun.”
It’s can be pretty fluid, really. There is a huge strain of “topping from the bottom” in BDSM play. F’rinstance, a…let’s say friend of mine…is a natural top, who enjoys subbing on occasion. But when…he’s…subbing, it’s still a dominant role, still calling the shots.
In my experience “bottoming from the top” is less common, but happens. My…friend…has encountered some natural subs who enjoy the occasional topping as a role play exercise, and the occasional natural sub who thought he or she was a top but discovered differently over time. Sometimes it’s a matter of overcompensation, a sociocultural fear of being submissive, that drives people to try to pass as a dom. It can be uncomfortable for them and, from my…friend’s experience, they can be very sloppy doms.
How that might extrapolate to drop is left as an exercise for the reader.
This thread is dumb and the puns were just torture!
Nobody shoved them down your throat, did they? I submit that you chose to come to this thread on your own. Why do you have to come into this thread and shit everywhere, fisting the air in rage, just because you don’t like the topic?
The punsters have been very, very naughty. Flog them!!!
You see?! Even necrophiliacs laugh at BDSMers!
Some people are switches; that is to say, they will take either role depending on mood and partner.
Pssst! Morgyn! He wasn’t talking about sex. He was joking about how I always get pwned when I start a thread complaining about something, like I start out thinking I’m the dom but end up as the sub. The reality is that my anger is short-lived and I’m always open to reasonable discussions of how I am wrong because I’m not firmly married to many of my opinions. And if Princhester and others get a laugh at my expense it’s okay because none of you are real.
The “S” in BDSM stands for solipsism!
Shit, I’m not even sure that I exist and am not a figment of someone else’s imagination, someone with powers not quite godlike enough to make his creation interesting.
:smack:
And I am *too *real! Pinch me!