EvCap, your continuing efforts to promote BDSM on this board and make it look [del]normal[/del] less creepy have squicked me out for years, and 50 Shades of Gray, despite its success, doesn’t help your argument. Find something less shitty to support it
I don’t know about all this BDSM the kids are into these days. What happened to good old fashioned leather suits, riding crops, ball gags and chains? Why does it have to all be about double fisting and cleveland steamers with the kiddos? Back in my day, you went down to your sex dungeon, harnessed your lover up in a sex sling, and that was it. But now you’ve got anal hook stretchers and penis slicers and piss bongs and beer felching and rectal speculum cum dumpster parties and megafursuit orgies and I just don’t approve of it, not one bit at all!
The biggest protests I’ve see over 50 Shades is by people in the BDSM community. They say it promotes a false idea of what their fetish is about, saying that the main guy is actually being abusive and possibly committing rape. (At least, that’s what they said about the book. The movie may try to fix those things.) It seems Mr. Grey is a bigger creep than Edward ever was.
Well, for one thing, he calls someone with different sexual preferences than his own “creepy.” I’m also guessing that EvilCaptor hasn’t really made all that big a deal about this. I know I haven’t noticed it. So the OP must be frequenting the threads where EC talks about this stuff.
Yeah, there was definitely a time when he was a little overenthusiastic about trying to pull his pet interests into pretty tangential conversations and he got modded on it. But if I recall correctly the mandate was only to keep his particular fetish out of more or less unrelated threads. I haven’t read this current thread ( since I’m fairly uninterested in the film ), but I gotta think that if anything falls into the “related” category it has to be 50 Shades of Grey.
Unless you think he’s really pushing the envelope, I’d probably let this one go.
I saw a survey the other day that listed BDSM as one of the most popular female fantasies out there. “50 Shades” is the highest selling book of all time despite being as I understand it complete and utter dreck.
Against that background, what is more interesting here: there’s a guy on these boards who is into or into fantasising about BDSM, or a second guy who is so squicked out by the subject he feels a need to call the first guy names?
So? What does that have to do with some creeper posting his fap material on the SDMB? You do realize that there’s a vast gulf between the fantasies of women in general and those of some middle aged man posting on the internet? That’s what the OP of this thread was addressing.
Neither is “interesting.” You claimed that dropzone’s desire not to be subjected to Evil Faptor’s wank material says more about him than the other. What the fuck does that even mean?
I invite anyone who feels I am making any kind of effort to promote BDSM on this board to pull up a listing of my posts using the search feature and see just how many BDSM-related posts by me you can find. (Hint: you are going to spend an awful lot of time reading posts that have nothing to do with BDSM.)
Dropzone, I do not share your opinion of BDSM, or Fifty Shades of Gray, or much of anything I suspect, and I note that your immediate response to opinions you do not share is to try to get them censored.