huh? Why? Drive by analings in the shower but no touching yourself ever?
Its your body, God created it, wouldnt he want you to know what it can experience?
Gopher, leave her alone. She doesn’t have to explain why.
I pretty strictly use fantasy. Sometimes erotica. Never porn - doesn’t do it for me.
As for where, anywhere I am alone will do if the mood strikes.
Use fingers and toys. Seperately or together.
Sometimes more than once a day, sometimes only once a week. Does not interfere with sex with my partner at all.
Yes, it is part of my shared sex life.
I have a friend who says she does not do it - mostly because she says she doesn’t get anything out of it - she thinks it’s likely her technique. I did tell her that if she thought she’d like to enjoy it more, she’d have to learn to practice at it! (That way she’d be better able to endure long dry spells, so to speak)
[Heavy Sigh]
Why hasn’t any doperette chimend in with
“while thinking of Zebra!”
[heavy sigh]
Do you use porn, computer or other, or it is strictly fantasy?
Never did the online thing, mostly because the family computer is in a rather accessible area of the house. I have three porns that I watch. Sometimes fantasy is enough; other times I need a little porn to get me in the mood. But it’s always heavily fantasy-based; just watching people have sex is not enough for me.
Where do you do it: bed, bath, garden?
Mostly in bed, but sometimes in the shower. Never anywhere else.
Do you use toys, or just your fingers?
I find that my fingers work best, although I do own several sex toys. I go through stages, though: sometimes vibrators just don’t make me come. With my fingers, I can come in under ten minutes every time. The toys get used more for sex with a partner than for masturbation, now that I think of it.
How often do you do it, and will you make love to your partner the same day?
I probably average about once a day. Some days, home alone, I’ll masturbate five or six times; but some days once is enough, or I’m too cranky and pissed to bother.
I usually end up wanting more after I’m done, so sex with a partner the same day is fabulous.
*Is it part of your shared sex life, or strictly a by-yourself thing? *
Right now I’m single, so it’s a by-myself thing, but I have no problems incorporating it into my sex life.
Also, I have a Masturbation Theory: I’ve been doing it since I was 12, so I knew exactly how to please myself when I started having sex. I think the familiarity with my body also allowed me to be more demanding, so that I felt comfortable asking my first partner to touch me a certain way. I don’t come every time I have sex, but enough that I’m definitely satisfied, and I think that’s because of masturbating and figuring out what works and what doesn’t for my body.
Gosh. All those replies, and nobody said, “I would not do it in a box. I would not do it with a fox.” (apologies to Green X and Vibrators)
–Nott, still wearing his pants
Can’t remember the comedienne who said it, but it went something like, “Yes, I masturbate, and yes, I scream out my own name.”
–Rysdad, also pants on
I’ve never had much luck with my fingers… maybe I’m just not sensitive enough or something, but it just doesn’t work. I love that Hitachi wand though, that thing is great! I sometimes use that while reading some good erotica on the Net, but very very rarely do I ever look at pictures. Most of my masturbation is in the shower… I use one of those shower heads attached to the spigot by a long hose, and it has adjustable water pressure and type of flow (ie concentrated jet, traditional shower thing, a flat jet, all sorts of good stuff (
I’ve never masturbated myself with my partner, maybe I just feel too private about it. No problems with him touching me, however, but I’ve never been able to orgasm unless with the two afformentioned toys.
watches as all of the adjustable shower heads are whipped off the shelves at Wal-Mart 