I’d start looking for stars in the East and messengers disguised as doves!
[/smartass] Answering the (my interpretation of) the intent of your query, though: Several years ago, I found myself single, at the tail end of what had been a serious relationship, and pregnant. I considered all of the options, and could not bring myself to abort or to put the baby up for adoption. I miscarried at about three months, but, had I not, I’d’ve figured out some way to keep the baby. (BTW, I did inform the father, but also told him that, beyond putting his name on the birth certificate, I expected nothing of him, since it my my unilateral decision to keep the baby. I’ll give him credit, though: He offered, of his own free will, to pay for half of my medical care and to pay child support. I think I would have agreed for him to pay child support, but I wouldn’t let him pay anything toward my own medical treatment.)