You said the SDMB doesn’t have “real men”.
Even though I’m not single, and the real answer is of course “maybe”, I’m going to vote “yes”. Because while I would not automatically go home with an attractive woman who asked me to, I am philosophically ok with the idea (presumably as long as no alarm bells were raised and she didn’t seem totally drunk off her ass or something).
Quite frankly I’m surprised by the inflated concerns that the woman is psychotic, trying to them or otherwise set them up or might be disease-ridden. How about the infinitely more likely scenario that she is simply a woman in a bar who is interested in having sex with you? Do men here have so low a self esteame and are so emotionally and socially crippled that scenario doesn’t even cross their mind?
That said, a strange woman coming up to you in a bar and opening with “lets get the fuck out of here” is unusually forward and a bit jarring. But it’s not unheard of when people are drunk.