Do you condone anal/tooth contact?
Well, after posting, I saw that you actually posted something supportive to her, so I take this back. It was correct at the time I wrote it, however.
There is no such thing as a mere cat. :mad:
A) Guin: ignore the trolls (I’m excepting Captain Amazing from the term.) Think of them as the insects they are.
B) God (any God worth believing in) will forgive and understand any comments you make in your pain and loss.
C) My heart breaks for you m’friend. I’ve lost 4 cats in 2 years and I know how much it hurts. You’ve got my sympathies and condolences. {{{Guin}}}
Fenris
Guinastasia, I can empathize with what you’re going through. I had a mid-aged cat, Soha, who had to be put down this summer. It’s a horrible decision to make, and there’s no real way to make it easier.
I’m so sorry.
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{{{{{{{{Guin}}}}}}}}}}}
Thanks, everyone. It’s okay, Captain. I know what you mean-I’m just lashing out at everyone. My whole family is-my father especially-first he yelled at me for not going to church anymore, and then my mom for feeding a stray…before storming off to work.
And my sister’s nasty as anything-but right now, she’s cuddling Tess-who is really HER cat. She’s going to stay home tomorrow and be with her. I’m going to school-I have to keep my mind occupied.
I’ll be all right. I’ll be all right.
I just keep thinking-at least, even though they never met, My Fluffy will look after her…when she’s gone.
Guin,
I never do this…in fact, I find it overly sentimental and a little annoying, but I’m going to make an exception to my rule this time.
<<<Guin>>>
<<<Guin’s family>>>
<<<Tess>>>
I too feel very sorry for you and your kitten. My daughter’s kitten had to be put to sleep just last winter. It’s a long story, but we agonized over the decision as well. We too really had no choice, but it was a miserably hard one to make anyway.
Make sure you can be with your kitten when the vet puts her to sleep. Give her all your love, hold her gently, and know that her thoughts are all positive and loving. It may not help you right then, but I’m sure it will help later to remember her. Sorry that’s all we can offer. Best wishes to you.
Actually, theres a few million other mere cats to take that ones place.
However, in the end, we’ll all be bending our knee to the one God.
To tell you the truth, I’m sorry for your loss. I’m sure it means a lot to you, but to curse the Lord over a cats death is foolish.
If someone was grieving and cursed me and it helped them in any way, I would be happy to be the recipient of their anger. I cannot accept that God could be less accepting of people than I, so yes, I have no problem with the first. For reference, see an essay called “The Woman Who Talked Back to God and Didn’t Get Zapped” by Sonia Johnson in From Housewife to Heretic
As for the second, what you do in the privacy of your home is your own business.
bigneck and Infidel, you are heartless bastards. I would cut you with flaming invectives, but you wouldn’t bleed. You don’t seem to be human.
Losing a loved one is the hardest thing that people can indure. Guin will wake up one day soon, get out of bed, and go about her morning routine. But it won’t be the same.
You see, she will be looking for, and expecting to see Tess. And Tess won’t be there. In gentle hearted persons, this brings about a sense of wrenching loss. Guin will feel this ‘sense of something just isn’t right’ for a long, long time. Tess won’t be there to greet her when she comes home from a hard day of work or school. Tess won’t be there when she curls up with a book to read.
When Guin calls the kitties to dinner, there will be one less head at the food dish. She has the right to grieve over the loss of her beloved kitty. And I’m crying now for her pain.
Your unwelcome commentary is out of line.
Shit, I curse God when I lose at Counter-Strike. Fuck off and let the woman greive.
Guin: Look at it this way: you only got to be with her for a few months, but she got to be with you her entire life. Which makes her an extrememly lucky kitty.
And don’t wait too long to get another cat. Loving homes are always in high demand.
Wouldn’t stuffing the carcass alieviate these problems?
Please, go start a new thread called “bigneck’s effective ways to deal with the loss of loved pets”.
You’re a total shithead. Even if she isn’t isn’t dealing with this in a way you approve of, back the fuck off and have an ounce of respect for someone who is obviously in a lot of pain right now.
and Guin, I’m sorry.
Guin, here’s something I never do
{{{{{{{{Guin}}}}}}}
You got my deepest sympathies. I love my little Neutron and I know I’d be devastated if anything happened to her. I hope it gets better.
Please excuse the following out-of-character language.
To the trolls:
Fuck you with a chainsaw! Who the fuck do you think you are shitting over someone’s grief? A pet loves you, plays with you, listens to you, and comforts you. God, you people are a sack of heartless, souless, motherfuckers!
Speaking of unwelcome commentary… Insults and threats of cutting people are welcome? Come on. I do have a heart, and I am an animal lover (1 dog, 1 hamster, 5 fish, and 1 turtle. I would have a cat but I am much too allergic.) I was merely questioning the cursing of God. I realize God is understanding/forgiving, and would understand/forgive a human reaction of this nature. However, is it necessary to curse God on a message board when one is upset with some “unfairness?” In posing this question (I now see I did it in a rude fashion, I apologize, but I suppose it’s my nature,) I have been accused of having no heart, been told to shove a keyboard up my ass, been called psuedo-pietic, and have had my gleaming teeth threatened. However heartless I may be perceived, I do understand the feeling that accompanies the loss of a pet. But please, keep some perspective. My feeling…
*Curse God if you must, but don’t post it on a silly message board. What is gained in doing so, really?
*Many things are not fair; saying F-U to God does not make them any more so - regardless of His understanding.
*Threatening bigneck’s teeth is bad.
*Insects can make good pets. However, do not curse God when they become ill or die.
I’m sorry, Guin.
Gee, Wabbit, I hardly think so. I hope you were being facetious.
After my Grandmother died, I realized that I would never, ever recieve another letter from her. I would never, ever again go to the mailbox and extract a letter from my Grandmother, in her ‘spidery’ handwriting. 17 years later, I still miss my Grandmother. And her weekly letters to me.
I guess I should have just had her stuffed…
Is that what you’re trying to say?
Has everyone lost their fucking minds? Is this just a troll magnet? Her fucking kitten’s about to die and all we get is pieces of shit like bigneck, infidel, and wabbit making sport or sanctimony of her grief. You fuck off now.
Guin, I was so sorry to read that Tess wasn’t going to be OK. Taking her in was an act of kindness and it warms me. To be repaid with the loss of the kitten you’ve come to love must be painful, as anyone with some fellow human feeling darksome glowering could appreciate.
Hugs to you in your time of trial, and blessings upon Tess for whatever may come after.
{{{{{{Hugs all around}}}}}}}}
You people are really something. Cat gets sick, owner says “Fuck You” to God as a result. Someone points out perspective. Sympathizers hurl insults and violent scenarios, (some quite perverted,) but continue to offer {{{{hugs.}}}}
Strangely intriguing…