The thing that really grinds my gears is when idiot bachelor party people drag the bachelor to the Village, sometimes in very bad drag or with, like, a dildo stuck down his pants or something, explicitly for the purposes of the ritual hazing. “Oh my god, I know how we can really embarrass him! Let’s… go where there’s gay people!” Yeah, fuck that. It really leaves me with a bad taste in my mouth.
My personal feeling on the topic is that it would only be tacky if you don’t actually believe in SSM yourself but still go to a gay bar for your bachelorette party. But I’m on the fence enough that while I wouldn’t agree with an owner who disallowed them, I’d fully understand if someone wanted to change their policy to disallow these.
His bar, his choice. What’s the debate?