It doesn’t really seem like you’re agreeing, but… ok. Just for clarification, i’m not saying it’s the enjoyment of sex with a person of the same gender that makes you gay/bi - as Misscegnist says, on a purely physical level you’re going to enjoy sexual stimulation. It’s your mind that influences how much you enjoy that action.
What I am saying is that if you’re *actively seeking out * sex with another guy/girl - you have an interest in it - then yeah, you’re already at the least bi-curious. The actual physical act doesn’t create that (though obviously depending on your enjoyment it may influence it). To use the words of the OP - you’re not “being recruited”, you’re already a member (pun intended).
Er, seeing as how you’re married, those people (gay or otherwise) who would try to have sex with you would be pretty immoral. And generally “I might be bi, I might not” is really not the biggest turn on (at least for me); what if you realise you’re really, really not partway through sex? Awk-ward.
Are you implying that you think about ***yourself ***when you masturbate? That would raise the question of whether narcissists are, by definition, gay.
As a guy who used to fix commercial equipment, some of it in gay bars, I can attest that some small percentage of gay guys, drunk or sober, can be obnoxiously persistent when hitting on you - even after you tell them that you’re straight, and that you’re not the least bit interested.
But then, as many women will tell you, some straight men can get pretty darn obnoxious when they’re feeling amorous - why should gay men be any different?
Thanks ** GLWasteful** but you deserve some of the credit for orginally calling her a “old hag.” Her book is quite a read in anti-gay hatred raised to an extreme level. She blames the homosexuals for having her proposed TV show cancelled. No, it was cancelled because the sponser (Singer Sewing Company) didn’t appreciate your political views.
Good responses, everybody. It would appear that it’s far from common knowledge that gays “virtually admit” that they recruit, as David Limbaugh attests.
I want to take this same point (and the same plug for my own website) to a conservative web site. I’m sure I’ll get some rather different responses. Can anyone recommend a good place to start?
If I can drag your attention away from the Gay Agenda for a few moments and direct it towards the Gay Minutes, you will see that the recruitment committee has submitted their final report saying that current recruitment efforts have been a total failure.
“Despite the best efforts of our operatives on Madison Avenue, advertising directed at queering the attractive portion of the male population has resulted only in the proliferation of the dreaded metrosexuals who, despite being purchased many, many martinis, still refuse to “put out” at the end of the evening. The committee has suggested that we issue a formal apology to straight women everywhere for the results of this misguided recruitment effort.”
A minority on the committe are suggesting we retain the “seduction by inebriation” strategy employed by many of our college chapters. The majority, however, question whether the six-pack gays truly qualify, and some have suggested that the current shortage of toasters for new members may be the result of the profligate awarding of toasters to said six-pack gays.
The Central Committee is considering addressing the entire “seduction by inebriation” strategy under new business in the next edition of the Gay Agenda.
Bagkitty, recording secretary for the Gay Minutes.
I think he used the term “virtually” as he must often runs across what he considers recruitment when he’s spending a lot of time in the gay cyber chat rooms.