I just don’t like it when people talk about large breasts being negative as if they were a style choice that I made.
If you think that smaller ones look nicer, that’s fine and all, just as long as you’re not one of those people who get the snotty tone of voice about the bigger ones. I’ve had people tell me that large breasts are just awful and ask why anyone would want them, as if I had a choice in the matter.
It’s not as if I chose to grow large breasts so that I could attract a man. They grew the way they grew, and there’s nothing I can really do about it. Surgery to ‘correct’ something that isn’t a physical defect is just absurd to me, plus there’s no way I’d be able to pay for something like that.
And for those people who assume that big = bought, I wish I could kick them in the teeth.
See, this is exactly my point. You have no need to feel insecure. You can rest assured that there are some of us out there who would think that you’re ideal.
For your whole life I bet you’ve been hearing that bigger is better, to the point where you’ve personalized it. You’ve built a huge chunk of your self-esteem on the garbage that the shit-brained media has sold to you. You’re smarter than that.
I am confused about your last sentence. I like little titties, and saying that would make you feel less secure? Does not compute. Can you explain this to me, pretty please?
I think smaller breasts look nicer and more shapely. They don’t sag as much over time, and the nipples are perky, where as mine kind of point downwards, which I find ugly. Also, it’s honestly painful to jump or run unless I’ve got some industrial-strength support bra on. And I hate anytime I’m trying to examine some blemish or what have you on my tummy or waist, because I have to push my boobs out of the way.
I don’t see they hype over big boobs. They just get in the way.
Girls, trust me, you DO. NOT. WANT these things. You can never wear anything strapless, or backless (unless you plan on not moving for the entire date, because when you’re a size DDD, those supposed “guaranteed” strapless bras and stick on things NEVER work). You’ll end up holding percfectly still (forget dancing) so that your merry widow doesn’t slide down your body allowing “the girls” to flop free.
You can’t even really wear anything lowcut, unless you want to look like the prow of the QEII coming into harbor… sigh
I’d give anything to be small and pert. Able to go braless in a Tshirt? MAN, in my wildest dreams. I haven’t been able to do that since I was about 11. I would bet, that for every Pamela Anderson out there getting ogled, there are 100 hugemongously breasted girls who are WILDLY enviour of your fashion freedom, your lack of breast induced backaches and inch deep shoulder dents.
Yes, DO stand proudly. We the “well endowed” are not better off.
(oh, and I haven’t even covered the part about how few males actually look at your face when they’re talking to you).
It’s simple–you’re telling me something about myself that I don’t like to hear. It’s nice to know that you like small breasts, but that doesn’t negate the fact that I really don’t like having anyone tell me that my breasts are small. And you saying, “I like little titties” is still saying that my titties are indeed little.
Coming from someone who had 7 lbs 3 oz of excess boobage removed about a year ago, yeah…put me in the camp of “Why in Og’s name would you ever want them to be BIGGER???”
This thread is useless without pics! So I’ll just offer this (fairly SFW).
Let me just say I’ll take whatever I can get. Old wife had small ones (didn’t wear a bra, just a t-shirt) and current girlfriend has very big ones (to the point of having to adjust them when we curl up together). I’m just grateful to have any other than my own to play with.
Just to set the record straight, I am not tearing down big-breasted women, or for that matter medium-breasted women. As I said earlier, all tits are good tits. But I get the feeling that IBT women often feel left out, when they shouldn’t. And apart from implants, they don’t have much choice in the matter either.
You deserve to feel good about your breasts. But so do smaller women. There’s room enough for both to be proud.
I guess that most of my frustration stems not only from the fact that small women are sometimes made to feel like second-class citizens, but I feel that way too, just because I prefer smaller breasts. When I hear things like “All men like huge tits”, I feel like my opinions and preferences must not count. And my reaction is “Fuck that shit!” This thread is my protest.
Let’s put things in perspective here, when judging women who get implants. If there was a sure, safe way, a really working method to enlarge the average 6" enis with another couple o’ inches - who’d be a majority in the waiting room at the local plastic surgeon, women or men wanting implants?
My wife got a reduction down to a DD from something off the charts.
On her petite frame, she still has a rack, but my god** I could have gotten into fist fights every five minutes**. She was ‘can’t hide these monstors’ huge and had a thin waste… and besides seeing others stare, the things we could hear others saying. People followed her in stores, or all the way home and circled around our home…she was stalked when she was younger…(frightening stuff).
Basically, I think she was comfortable and happy, but with two kids and non-stop staring, even** her** will to shop was overcome (shopaholic), and it affected her spirits and willingness to be out in public.
Hmm. Please attribute my slowness in understanding you to my primitive male brain. And remember that I’m from Mars, and you’re likely from Earth.
Would you accept it as a compliment if I said I like your breasts “that size”? Or that I like them just the way they are? Is there any way I could possibly phrase it that you would both take it as a compliment and know that I’m sincere?
Also, you seem almost embarassed to be built the way you are. That’s a damn shame. This is part of what pisses me off. What would it take – hypothetically, of course – for you to feel good about your breast size? I honestly want to know.
Because I am almost an A. Buying undergarments that say “My First Bra” in the little misses department really does a number on your self-esteem. My thirteen year old daughter already has me beat! Not to mention the teasing I had to go through in middle and high school…I’m not exaggerating when I say that if I had just been big enough to be considered normal it would have changed a lot of things in my life for the better.
My husband loves mine just the way they are*, but I still stand in the bathroom, looking in the mirror, sighing deeply. Why can’t they be perkier, and not so damn heavy?
*and I believe him - not out of naivete, but he comes home every night and plays with them when he gets in the door. I’m sure there are others he finds attractive, as well, but mine keep him pretty happy, too
My old co-workers used to always make fun of my big boobs… because even when I’m slim and trim, my boobs are always a 48D. I used to be teased with lines like “If you ever got hit by a truck, you’d bounce right back up!” or “When you run, you must knock yourself out” or “I’d like to take you to bed with me so that I can use your breasts like a serving tray for my chips and dip while I watch TV”.
sigh Most of us women with fairly large+ breasts just get a lot of horny dogs baying at our door, hear disgusting, rude jokes, or just generally harrassed. The thing is, I know it happens to women with smaller breasts, as well, but they seem to attract a more “civil” crowd of dogs. Perhaps it’s not entirely true. The grass is greener, they say… looks wistful
I dunno. I’ve got a pretty average 6-6.5"-er, not exceptionally long or of unusual girth, and none of the women I’ve had sex with ever complained about it. Maybe they were just being nice, I don’t know. Some of them had been with a couple tripods in their time, and the reviews were mixed: Certainly a monster cock is good for a sensation of fullness, but when it’s slamming against the cervix, having one’s hairy cup runneth over can be extremely painful. I suppose my wife would have to experiment with some dildos of various size and shape first, and then make a recommendation. My guess is she’d go for only modest increase in length, and perhaps moderate increase in girth, at most. She had a boyfriend with a mondo willy once (they never had sex), and, to use her description, she found it “too scary”.
I think the answer’s pretty obvious. While women can get surgery, some men will throw away endless paychecks on downright dangerous devices made by shady companies.
Dissatisfaction with one’s body parts is hardly just a women’s issue.
Oh, and I’m not “judging” women who get implants. I just think that getting them can often be an unwise choice. When I saw that Rikki episode, I thought those girls were absolutely lovely. They didn’t need any enhancement. For them to undergo unnecessary surgery was a sad, sad thing to see.
YES! YES YES! That’s another thing! Mine aren’t as large as yours, but my OG I have a terrible time finding shirts that look right on me!! If they’re large enough to accomodate my top, then it hangs loose over my thinner tummy, making me look much larger than I am. And nice blouses? HA! Forget it. The top buttons look like they are about to burst, while the rest fits too loose again. Tuck it into pants? Yeah, right. Like I need to accentuate the fact that my breasts are waaaay out there and my waist is waaaaay in here any more. I’d look like this:
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And now I’ve gained a little weight, and taken to wearing frumpier clothes. I just. can’t. win.
The top buttons look like they are about to burst, while the rest fits too loose again. Tuck it into pants? Yeah, right. Like I need to accentuate the fact that my breasts are waaaay out there and my waist is waaaaay in here any more. I’d look like this: