Old Fob(42) checking in. Any time’s the right time. Age ain’t your problem young man. Perhaps when your 40+ and you’re just happy when the thing works you’ll look back with fondness at the time when you could take or leave Mr. Woody. Ah who am I kidding. I would have been into it even when I was in my 20s.
Love it. Haven’t been on the receiving end (yet) but would definitely enjoy it, regardless of how badly I needed to sleep. Had discussed it with my SO, she said she was fine with me messing around with her if she was asleep; if she really wasn’t up for it she’d just tell me to knock it off. So far she hasn’t
Whats fun is when someone wakes up about 75% of the way into it, they’re about to orgasm and they’re like, “wait whats happening?”
Do people really sleep that soundly? I can’t imagine sleeping through someone performing sex acts on/with me.
I said never, but truthfully…I’ll participate with a marked lack of enthusiasm. It only takes a minute and then I can get back to sleep. A rejection and hurt feelings would take all damn day, and I’m tired, goddammit.
That arrangement will work for decades when you are single too…
Do I have to work in the morning? 'Cause if so, I really need my sleep.
It happens a lot with my husband and I. I’m an early to bed, early to rise girl. He stays up later and naturally wakes up later than me. Often he’ll wake me up when he comes to bed, and I do the same if I wake up in the morning before the alarm goes off. Neither of us minds, though we pretty much always ask, “Do you want me to let you sleep/leave you alone?” Usually, the answer is “no.”
Love sex, but don’t even THINK of waking me up for it.
Well, they’re not completely asleep; more like in-between where you might not be sure if you’re having an erotic dream or something.
TMI
The times it was appreciated, the foreplay I initiated followed through into sex. The times she wanted to sleep, she gently pushed my head out of her crotch, I rubbed one out myself, and went back to sleep. Everybody wins
I had the same problem with my ex. (That’s not why she’s my ex). Once I started wearing my official Evel Knievel Star Spangled Crash helmet to bed, problem solved.
I think I’d like it, but unfortunately both of us sleep much too soundly to wake up at night.
There’s about a 95% chance that i will have a boner when waking up so its the perfect time.
Morning sex is OK, but not really my thing. You better not ever wake me up in the middle of the night unless the house is on fire.
Totally depends. Might be fab, might prefer to sleep. How will my partner know when is when? Not until you try. So, always worth a try, but don’t be hurt if, on occasion, I don’t wanna.
I find it deeply creepy even to contemplate. When I am unconscious no one should be touching me sexually, not even my beloved (not that he would). I would awaken super-pissed.
It’s fine for other people if that’s what they like. I was really surprised the first time I heard about it though.
Me too, and my partner knows it. And it’s my favorite way of waking up.
Go for it, the worst two outcomes are terrible sex or denial, and it’s not like anyone in my bedroom has never experienced both of those. On the other hand, though, the possibility for mindblowing sex is there.
And hey, even terrible sex is better than no sex at all.
A whole minute? Dayum!!
I have recounted before being woken up with a BJ by a relative stranger at a party (I’d gone to lie down in her room). I was delighted.
In the context of a relationship, my recent ex hated this.
The ex before her loved it.
You can’t please all the people all the time.
Been woken up once for sex, a little confusing but fun nonetheless. I’d definitely be up for it again, but never tried it on anyone.