They should’ve left some hay also.
Fuck him. He was in my face screaming at me. At 4:30 in the morning. And he was wrong. Believe me, I’d love to drink the Dale’s, but I can’t without accepting his apology.
Maybe after you drink a few beers you’ll feel more like accepting the apology.
It’s a catch-22. I cannot drink one without accepting his apology. Maybe with time, I don’t know.
Don’t think of it as an apology, think of it as more of a tribute (like Danegeld).
But that’s the thing: he can’t change the past. What more can he do other than apologize and make amends? Accepting the apology doesn’t mean “your actions were acceptable.” It means “we agree that you were wrong. Now never do this again.”
It’s some catch, that catch-22.
Keep in mind his actions were those of a man who woke up at 4:30 in the morning to find a horse destroying his yard. He was surely not at his best.
Yes, this - have you ever accepted the apology of someone who wrongly accused you?
Now granted, the screaming was presumptively over the top. However, you are apparently the nearest horse owner and you apparently thought it was entirely possible that one of your horses had gotten out. Also, presumably the neighbor isn’t familiar enough with your horses to be able to accurately tell if a horse in his yard in the dark is one of yours.
So accept the apology and drink the beer. I personally would probably invite him over to share one, but I overly value avoiding conflict and understand that many people wouldn’t go that far.
Look, if you can’t accept his apology, you can at least accept the fact that free beer should never be ignored.
(Geez, I’ve been wronged by worse people than that, by people who’d never dream of an apology… or even buying me ONE beer.)
You escalated to name-calling. He was wrong to start out so rudely but he didn’t call you a motherfucker, did he? He apologized and reached out with an olive branch, even after you verbally abused him. IMO you’re just being petty and dickish by not accepting and understanding that he made a mistake.
He seems like a really cool guy, I’d want to be his friend if I were in that situation.
After what I saw in the restroom this morning, I think one of my coworkers could use those.
You seem like quite a reasonable person, so I’m really surprised that you’re over-reacting like this. The guy apologized and made amends to a greater degree than most people would have. Enjoy the beer and quit wasting your energy on pointless anger! 
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Until now, no I have not. Wrong accusations and ultimatums have been two of my “things”.
My gf was surprised last night when I mentioned accepting the guy’s apology. I wasn’t sure how to let him know, though. I wasn’t going to his house, and I don’t even know the guy’s name.
Turns out my gf had exchanged cell numbers with him and his wife. So, I texted him and let him know we were cool. I was really curious how he tracked down a case of Dale’s and it turns out he was just lucky. He started out calling all the beer distributors in the area and the one place I’ve gotten a case from just happened to have one in the store.
People make weird assumptions about stray animals.
Not long after we moved into the new place, someone knocked at our door early one morning, accompanied by a dog. By the time I got up and went downstairs he was gone. But it turned out that he had opened the gate to our backyard and put the dog in there, under the assumption that it was ours (it turned out to be a neighbor’s German shepherd mix).
Shortly after we moved to our previous home in Ohio, two women showed up in a state of piss-off, to complain about a large white dog running around their yards. I explained that it wasn’t ours, but from the glares I got it was clear they didn’t believe me.
None of them ever gifted me with a beverage either.
Gotta love rural law enforcement.
Hey, good for you!
And so much less work than leading a horse over to his house every night at 4:30 and getting it to whinny under his window…
i’m so glad! enjoy the apology beverages!
Can’t find my Smuckers Natural peanut butter anywhere.
I have angered the Committee.
Well done.