That needs to be 1 - 2 years during which you actually see a good deal of each other in person. (At least, unless you’re considering a long-term relationship intended to be also long-distance nearly all the time; in which case that needs to be made explicit.) Not just 1 - 2 years from when you met, during most of which you haven’t actually been around each other.
@Velocity’s already done that. And he keeps changing the goal. He’s changed it three times already, and wants to make it (at least) four. How can she – or should she – put any faith in any goal that he sets?
Yes, being with one’s loved ones is important! But if you figure out where you stand, medically speaking (possibly including second opinions) then you will know exactly what your options are.
We also never got a follow-up on the “the church wants to know how I produce captions so fast” thread despite my asking. I’m invested, damn it, don’t cancel the show mid-season!