Girlfriend is spending a lot of time talking to a new guy friend of hers online. Should I worry?

[Asimovian]

@kidneyfailure

Suspicion doesn’t equal proof. In all of the situations I’ve been in I had my suspicions, but I acknowledged that I might have just been making a big deal out of nothing. I needed proof and I got it and I was right. What’s so hard to figure out?

I can’t figure out how you could feel that distrustful of someone and then think that if you don’t get your proof, you can go back to trusting them.